by Matt Fraser | Mar 23, 2023 | Blog
Send Your Troubles to the Angels
Life on this planet is not always easy. As a psychic medium, I am told by spirit that we are all here to learn lessons and grow at a soul level, and it’s the darkest times that teach us the most.
That being said, when you’re having a bad day – or a bad year – it’s not easy to be grateful to the universe for everything it’s teaching you! Fortunately, Heaven always has your back, making sure you don’t have to navigate life’s challenges alone.
Send me an Angel
When it comes to being connected with their Angels, people seem to fall into two groups. There are those who are in contact with their Angels all the time. They talk to them and ask for advice on everything from finding their soulmate to locating their car keys. The others might love to have the support of their Angels, but they have a hard time feeling connected to something they can’t physically see.
These two groups do have one thing in common. They both have Angels around them. Every living person does. In fact, there are Angels sitting by your side right now. Why are they there? Well, that depends on your needs. There are different types of Angels. There are guardian angels that watch over and protect you. There are Archangels – who occupy the highest spot in the angel hierarchy. There are also Angels with divine jobs that appear in your life for a specific purpose.
To feel closer to them, you just have to invite them into your life. It’s like a lot of things. Just because you can’t see them, doesn’t mean they’re not there. If you have faith and open yourself up to your Angels, you will start to feel their positive impact.
Light conquers darkness
So let’s get back to the hard times you might be facing. Plenty of people are struggling with health issues, career and financial setbacks, relationship problems, or are grieving the loss of a loved one. Any one or a combination of these things can put you in a pretty dark place – and that’s where your Angels can help. As a medium, every time I see spirit, they always have a bright white light behind them.
That light is the purest, most potent form of energy and it has the power to erase all negativity. Darkness cannot live in light, and if you send your worry, anxiety, and fearful thoughts to your Angels, they will absorb them like a sponge. Enlisting the help of your Angels to clear your own energy is easier than you think.
Have you ever woken up in the middle of the night with a nagging feeling of anxiety? Next time that happens, imagine yourself packaging up all those fears and handing them over to your Angels. Imagine placing all the emotions you want to release in a box, and sealing it up. Then visualize your angels receiving your box of energy, and purifying it in a flood of white light. I bet you’ll feel lighter and more positive immediately!
Try this exercise to clear your energy with help from your Angels.
Sit quietly and take a few deep, slow breaths, Now, invite your Angels to draw closer. Imagine a white light emanating from them as they surround you. Now picture yourself bathed in the same beautiful white light. Slowly imagine it flowing from the top of your head to your toes, and as it travels through your body, see it surrounding and engulfing any darkness until all that remains is pure light.
Look around and see how the light connects you to your Angel team. Take your time! The slower you go, the more powerfully the light will cleanse and clear your energy.
Just like regularly cleaning your house keeps everything neat and in order, you can keep your mind, soul, and life free of darkness and negativity by practicing this technique regularly. I like to do this before I go to bed, and I find it keeps me in a positive, happy mindset. It won’t guarantee that nothing bad will ever happen, but it will allow the Angels to do their work, and keep your spiritual house as pure and light filled as possible!
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by Matt Fraser | Mar 13, 2023 | Blog
Whether I’m standing on stage or live on Zoom, when I share messages from Heaven the Souls who show up have one thing in common. They come from a place of love, forgiveness and healing.
It’s not the same with the living. Life on earth can be difficult, and as you go about your day, you’re bound to encounter some people whose energy is NOT so positive. From that grumpy neighbor who keeps your kids’ soccer ball when it bounces into his yard, to the overly aggressive driver in the pickup truck who cuts you off in traffic, to the super-competitive coworker who does her best to make you look bad in front of the boss, there are plenty of negative, rude, even toxic people in the world. So why don’t I get nasty messages from Heaven? There’s a simple reason for that. That kind of behavior doesn’t exist on the other side.
A LOT of people who attend my readings worry that someone they care about may not have made it to Heaven, but often, the behavior those individuals demonstrated on Earth wasn’t entirely their fault. A person may have suffered from depression, struggled with addiction, or died by suicide. They might have had a terrible upbringing and never learned to love, or might have been in so much physical or emotional pain that it affected the way they lived their lives. Their loved ones often pray for their souls to be at peace, and I love having the chance to prove to them that not only is their loved one in Heaven, but they have transformed into a better version of themselves.
Leave Your Baggage at the Gates.
When damaged people make their way to heaven’s gates, something amazing happens. They go through a Life Review, where they revisit every aspect of their life on earth – the good, the bad, and the ugly.
No one is perfect. We’re human, and we all show up in Heaven with baggage. But since Heaven is a place of peace and love, before we enter we must leave our negative baggage at the door! For most Souls, the life review takes care of that. During this review, souls see their life with absolute clarity, including their good and bad deeds, the opportunities they missed, and the effect that they had on others. They’re no longer in their human form, so they’re not seeing these experiences through the filter of anger, or addiction, or mental illness. Now that they no longer struggle with Earthly limitations, they are able to own up to the mistakes they’ve made, and they usually are remorseful and motivated to make amends.
I remember a reading I did a few months ago. The woman in the audience was surprised when her father came through, because she didn’t think he was in Heaven. He had been a self-centered alcoholic who abandoned his family and never looked back – until he died. When he went through his life review, the cloud of alcoholism was no longer in the way, and he was so sorry for how he had treated his family. He couldn’t wait to own up to his mistakes and apologize to his daughter. The reading was healing for both of them, and the woman left the event looking so much lighter and happier.
Not Everyone Makes it to Heaven
Most people who pass over are admitted into Heaven, but there are a small group of people who are truly evil. Even during their life review, when those people are presented with the terrible things they’ve done and the people they hurt, they have no empathy, and no remorse. The few souls that fall into this category are unable to pass over, and must stay behind as earthbound spirits. These are the spirits who haunt the earth and can potentially do us harm. But in my years as a medium, I’ve only encountered a couple of malignant souls, and when I did, they had no power over me.
There are ways to avoid being negatively affected by earthbound spirits.
- Don’t look for trouble! These malignant souls won’t appear unless you go looking for them. There’s a reason why I don’t mess around with Ouiji boards, and why I urge others to leave them alone too. Also, even though I get lots of calls from people wanting me to visit haunted houses or go “ghost hunting” I always say no.
- Know that evil spirits want to be alone. They will crawl to the deepest darkest places and hide. Even if you were to move into a haunted house, opening the doors and windows, filling the house with love and light, and putting family photos around would encourage dark spirits to move on.
- Use psychic protection. Before every reading event, I take a moment in private to pray to my angels and guides. I set my intention and invite only those loving souls to appear who want the best for the members of the audience. You can protect yourself too, by simply imagining yourself bathed in pure, white light.
If you’re worried that someone you love didn’t make it to Heaven, or are afraid of crossing paths with an earthbound spirit, let me leave you with this thought. For over ten years, I’ve been actively connecting with Spirit just about every day and I can count on one hand the number of truly evil souls I’ve encountered. Most people aren’t perfect, and they might struggle during their life, but at a soul level, they’re good. If they are capable of showing remorse when their life review reveals the people they’ve hurt, they have the chance to make amends and spend eternity in Heaven.
If you’ve been avoiding getting a reading because you’re afraid someone you love might not be in Heaven, I hope I’ve given you something to think about. To experience the Spirit connection for yourself, join me at an in-person or online event – I just added some new ones to my website, so there’s sure to be something that works for you!
by Matt Fraser | Mar 4, 2023 | Blog
Why Souls Don’t Celebrate Their Birthdays in Heaven
Have you ever tried to figure out how old your loved one is in Heaven? You might think, “Hmm, let’s see, Grandma died when she was 89, and that was 20 years ago. Does that mean she’s 109 now?” Absolutely not. She’s not 109, and she’s not 89 either. In fact, your age is one of the things you don’t take with you when you pass over. Your body houses your soul during your time on earth, but when you die, your soul transitions and you leave your body behind. Souls in Heaven get to “travel light” without clothes, jewelry, or any earthly possessions. And they definitely don’t need any clocks or watches – because they’re in Heaven for eternity, time is irrelevant!
Leaving Time Behind
I’m excited to share insights about Heaven that I’ve learned over the course of many readings. We all want to know what the afterlife is really like, and it’s really interesting to understand time (or the absence of it) from a Soul’s perspective. Let’s start with when you’re alive. During your physical lifetime, every year matters. Each birthday marks another milestone passed on your life’s journey. You are on this planet to use this time to face challenges, learn lessons, create memories, share love, and fulfill your destiny.
As humans, we see our “lifetime” as all the time we have. But it’s different in Heaven.
Your age marks the amount of time you’ve been alive on Earth; when you pass over time just stops. The important connections you made on Earth stay with you in the afterlife, but Heaven is eternal, so there are no hours, days, weeks, or years.
That’s why your loved ones don’t celebrate their own birthdays, anniversaries, or any other milestone date after they pass over. However, they will be there in Spirit when you enjoy your own special days, and they especially enjoy watching you make progress on your life’s journey.
When someone dies, the people left behind may feel their absence even more on the birthday or anniversary of their death. Souls don’t want you to be sad on that particular day. In fact, they don’t want you to be sad at all, because they’re doing just fine, and they are always around you! But they do enjoy their memories of you, and want you to remember the happy times you shared with them.
Thanks for the Memories!
Here’s another crazy thing. As you go through your life, it’s impossible to remember everything. A few early memories may stand out, but for the most part, you don’t remember your first steps, your first birthday party (or your second or third), and many other events you experienced when you were young. As we get older, our brains can only hold so much. If you’re anything like me, you’re probably thinking,”Right, Matt, I can barely remember what I had for breakfast!” That’s okay, you don’t need to remember everything while you’re alive.
But those memories are not lost forever. Even if someone was suffering from Alzheimers, dementia, or were distracted and not paying attention when they were alive, when a soul transitions, all the things they experienced in their life, significant and insignificant, come rushing back.
That’s why, if you get a reading, you might notice that your loved one will share all kinds of memories of you. They’ll jump from something that happened when you were very young, to your wedding. They will even have memories that happened to you after they died.
That’s right. Time isn’t important in Heaven, but memories are treasured.
When it Comes to Memories, The Line Between Heaven and Earth is Blurred.
I just did an online reading for a woman whose mother died when she (the daughter) was just six years old. The woman wasn’t sure if she could get a good reading, because her mom had passed so early in her life – but as the reading went on, she was shocked to learn that her mom had memories from when they were together, and also up to the present day! In the reading, it was clear that her mom was still watching over her daughter, and the grandchildren she had never met in life, and had the loving memories to prove it.
Here’s another interesting fact about the memories Souls retain in Heaven. When they go through their life review they recall EVERYTHING with total clarity and understanding! Every step they took, every person they interacted with. They not only see the people they met, but also fully understand why their path crossed with them.
Your loved ones watch over you with pure love. They want to see you make the connections and have the experiences you need to grow. Sometimes they will send you a sign to let you know they’re around, or give you a nudge to keep you on course. They want to see you make the most out of your life, and to be happy.
Next time you attend a live mediumship event, in-person or online, and are selected for a reading, know that you will be connecting with the soul, the essence, of your loved one. No matter how old they were or what state they were in when they passed, you can be confident that from their place in Heaven, they will have perfect, loving recall of their time with you.
by Matt Fraser | Feb 10, 2023 | Blog
What Heaven Says About Finding Your Soulmate
If you ask a hundred people to share what they believe is the most important ingredient for a happy life, you’ll get a lot of different answers. If you were to ask a Soul in Heaven the same question, they’d all focus on one important thing – LOVE.
When I’m bringing through messages from Heaven, you can be sure that the Souls are not preoccupied with work, money, or the physical things they left behind. When you pass over you let go of those worldly things, and what remains for eternity is the love you shared with family, friends, pets and, most importantly, your soulmate.
The Right Person at The Right Time
People often ask me for advice about finding their soulmate. I’m definitely not the “love doctor,” and I don’t have all the answers, but I’ve learned a lot about the subject from my conversations with the Spirit world.
I was fortunate to find my soulmate relatively early in life, but I can’t take all the credit for that! Looking back, I’m convinced Spirit was behind Alexa and I getting together. My Guides made sure that our paths crossed at the perfect time – when we were both ready to have a serious relationship.
When I think back over the people I dated when I was younger, I wish them all the best! I realize that those relationships were all leading up to my meeting Alexa. The times I shared with those past girlfriends and the lessons I learned were important, because they helped me evolve into someone who was capable of sharing his heart completely when the right person came along.
Insights From Heaven About Finding Your Soulmate
I’ve picked up so many helpful insights about finding love and meeting your soulmate, and now, with Valentine’s Day around the corner, it’s the perfect time to share them with you. I’m just beginning my love journey, but this information comes from Souls who have lived, loved, passed over, and now have access to Universal Wisdom.
Here’s what Heaven wants you to know about finding your soulmate:
- To find the right person you have to be the right person.Put your energy behind being the best you can be at work, at home and in every aspect of your life. That way, when the right person comes along, you’ll be ready.
- Be present for the person you’re with,not just when you’re on a date but all the time. If you’re always running around, distracted and focused on your to-do list and what you’re doing next, you might miss a chance encounter with someone who could change your life. This is good advice for living your best life in general, but it’s particularly important when it comes to love. Remember – your Guides and Angels will put your soulmate in your path, but it’s up to you to recognize the opportunity when it happens.
- Spend as much time as possible doing things you love.Dating apps are kind of like social media. Everyone on there is creating an image they want the world to see. Is it who they really are? Who knows! But if you’re hiking, traveling, volunteering, or participating in an activity you love, it allows the “real you” to shine through – and the same goes for the people you meet.
- Create a vision board,where you put together pictures, words, phrases, etc. that reflect the person and the relationship you’d aspire to have. Be creative and let your intuition guide you. Have you ever heard my story of how I met Alexa? If so, you’ll remember that I created a vision board shortly before we met, and when I looked back at it, I saw that I’d included a picture of a girl who looked very much like her.
- Love yourself (and others).The most basic piece of advice that you’ll hear when it comes to finding a soulmate is to first learn to love yourself. That goes without saying, but I want to add something to that. The more love you can send out to the world the more love you’re going to attract. We receive from life what we put into it, so shower, your friends, family, pets, and the people you meet with love, kindness and compassion. You’ll find yourself with an abundance of love in your life and that includes meeting a soulmate.
- Have an image in your headof the person you’re looking for. I can’t stress this enough – this is personal. It might be fun looking at the hottest actor or supermodel on Instagram, but would you really want to be married to that person or in a relationship with them? Your soulmate is someone you connect with her much deeper level beyond the physical – so know the qualities that are important to you, and be picky about what actually matters!
- Tear down the walls. How many times have you heard people say they’re afraid to get in a relationship because they’ve been hurt before. Those walls can protect you, but they also keep you from experiencing the joy that comes from finding your special someone. The secret to getting past this? Do some soul-searching and look for the lesson in that past relationship, forgive, send love, and move on!
- Trust your gut. If you meet someone and you feel a special spark, don’t ignore it. Maybe the person isn’t your usual type, but your intuition is telling you to give them a chance. Your intuition is the voice of your Guides and Angels, so pay attention!
- Finally, when you find the right person, don’t blow it! So many souls have regrets about this when they pass over and realize they let their soulmate slip away. They met, spent time with, and maybe even married their soulmate. But even if you’re with the right person, there’s no guarantee that you’ll stay together forever. Your Guides can only take you so far, and then it’s up to you to treat your soulmate well and keep the flame alive.
I hope these tips will help you find your twin flame – the soulmate that will enrich your life and remain connected with you through eternity. If you’ve lost someone, and long to hear from them again, I’d love to help! Check out my website to join me for an online reading event, or catch me live. I’ll be touring the United States and Canada this year, and would love to see you.
by Matt Fraser | Feb 5, 2023 | Blog
Your Child’s Imaginary Friend May Be Something More
Recently I did a reading for a woman and her family and a lot of interesting messages came through. One in particular blew everyone’s mind! It had to do with an imaginary friend that had been part of their daughter’s life when she was young. Many years ago, the mother had been pregnant with twins. One was born strong and healthy, but the other had serious health issues and died a very short time after birth.
The soul of the twin who had passed came through in the reading to share that she had spent time with her sister when she was a young child, and had actually been able to experience life through the little girl’s eyes. It turns out that the surviving twin had always talked about her imaginary friend, but never mentioned that “friend” was actually her sister.
Everyone was shocked to learn this so many years later! Even the surviving twin had forgotten the true identity of her “imaginary” childhood companion, but during the reading, all the pieces suddenly fit together. The twin who had passed shared how much love she felt from her parents and her sister, and the reading ended on a beautiful and healing note.
If your child has an imaginary friend, it might be a character that they saw on television or something they dreamed up. But there’s another possibility. Your son or daughter might be hosting a visitor from Heaven. If that’s the case, there’s nothing to fear.
The Soul is coming from a place of love, and the relationship can be very positive for both the child and their Heavenly guest! Of course, the way you respond when your child shares their experience can make a big difference. More about that later. First, I want to take a step back and explain why it’s so common for Spirit to come through to babies and young children.
Open Minds, Open Hearts.
It’s important to understand that when a child is born, their soul has just transitioned from Heaven. For the first few months of life that baby still maintains a strong connection to the Spirit World. They are aware of the constant presence of their team of Angels, Guides, and deceased loved ones, which is why you might see a baby smile and gesture at something or someone you can’t see.
To the baby, their presence is perfectly normal. As the baby grows into a young child, their connection eventually starts to fade or they may find a different way of interacting with visitors from Heaven. Some children will maintain a connection with a relative who has passed. Sometimes this will be because they shared a special bond with the person in life. That’s how it was when my Grandmother passed over.
Visits From Grandma.
I remember Spirits visiting me when I was a boy. They’d usually come at night, and sometimes it would scare me. But there was one visitor who I was always happy to see.
When I was young, I was very close to my grandmother – my Mom’s mom. When she passed, I could still hear her talking to me, which was confusing. I remember being at the funeral, and it didn’t feel like she was really gone at all.
A while after that, Grandma started visiting me at night in my room. She would sit with me, talk to me and read to me. I loved seeing her! I told my mother, and she was very calm about it. My mother and my grandmother were both psychic mediums, back then they didn’t talk about it that much, but my mom definitely understood what was happening.
What happened to me isn’t unusual. I’ve had many parents tell me stories about their child pointing to someone in a picture who had died before they were born and acting as if they knew them and had spent time with them. Children are more likely than adults to see Spirit, because their connection is still so open.
Here’s another reason- children accept what they see. They haven’t learned to doubt their own feelings and observations or to concern themselves too much with what other people think of them like adults tend to do.
What to do if Your Child is Talking to Souls in Heaven?
If you feel like your child is talking to Spirits, don’t worry! These Souls are not coming through to harm them. Children are pure beings, and will attract only loving energy. Many children treasure their time with their imaginary friends or Heavenly visitors, but some might have fears and concerns.
Here are some ways you can help your child understand and accept their Spirit connection:
- Keep the conversation simple and loving. Talk about their invisible phone line where they can talk to grandma, or something else that is unthreatening and makes sense.
- Bring up family members who have passed in a calm, cheerful way, especially when your child asks about people in pictures. If it seems appropriate, let them keep a photo in their room.
- When they talk about an imaginary friend, be open and welcoming. Don’t joke around about it with other people, or make a big deal out of it. Take your cues from your child when it comes to involving the friend in family activities.
Remember, children accept what they see. They haven’t learned to doubt their own feelings and observations. They don’t concern themselves too much with what other people think of them like adults tend to do. Their openness and honesty makes it easier for Spirit to come through!
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