It’s amazing that sometimes all you need to do to connect with someone in Spirit is invite them in. I recently had a woman who attended one of my LIVE events in Peabody ( Click Here For Event Schedule ). She came looking to hear from her Son that had passed on, she even stuffed his hat in her purse hoping he would come through and reach her with a message. The moment I walked into the room she was one of the first I read. There
was no way I could miss her son. He was literally standing behind her waving to me and asking me to come over and deliver a message
to his Mom. He said that he knew that she had brought his hat with her, but what he wanted her to know is that she didn’t need that to be able to sense and feel him or to make him come through. It’s amazing, so many people come to my events and bring articles of clothing, pictures, jewelry and one time even someones urn! It makes me laugh every time. Those you love are not attached to their material things, they are attached to YOU!
Sometimes people come to me after a show, feeling frustrated because no matter how hard they try, they have not been able to see, feel, or sense signs from their loved ones. I always give them the same advice. Your loved ones in Heaven might need a sign from YOU – so they know you’re emotionally ready for them to connect. How do you signal to them that you are open and ready? You can’t text or send them an email. No worries! There are many ways to let them know.
Here are just a few:
When you want to hear from a loved one, try having a simple conversation in your mind or out loud. That will help open you up to them, and in turn, they will be able to reach out to you better. You might feel silly talking out loud by yourself – but the spirit people are tuned in to your thoughts, so it is okay to have the conversation in your mind too. It can be as simple as saying (or thinking), “I miss you.” If you have an object that reminds you of them, hold it while you talk. That will help make the connection because you will feel more like they are with you. Talk about your day or tell them about a problem you are having. Say “I need your help.” Your loved ones are listening, and they want to be there for you.
Write A Letter.
Just like a conversation, a letter is another way to reach out to your loved ones and let them know you are ready to hear from them. Write what is in your heart. Maybe you want them to help you find an answer, or maybe you just need a little reminder that they’re still with you. Don’t be afraid to ask for what you need. Write it down. A friend of mine writes letters to her mom on her computer. She types out everything she would say too if her mom were right there with her. She talks about what is going on in her life and explains in detail where she needs help. When she is done, she pushes the little x to close the window. When the box pops up that says, “Do you want to save this file?” she says, “No” because she knows her mother has already received the message just because she was typing it. You can also leave the letter in a place that is meaningful to you and your loved one. Some people even like to put a letter or note in the fire, and as the paper burns and smoke rises, they imagine the message being delivered to Heaven!
Sometimes making something that reminds you of your loved one helps to create a space for connecting with them. It can be as simple as having an object that reminds you of them, a piece of clothing that you wear or hold. Some people make quilts out of their loved ones’ shirts. Wrapping up in a blanket like that can feel like a big hug from beyond! I heard a great idea once. A woman took a bunch of her husband’s shirts and used them to make stuffed animals for their grandchildren. She made pillows for their children. It helped her have something to do with the empty time in her life after he was gone, and whenever they were feeling sad and missing him, her family had something to hold on to.
It can be frustrating to look and wait for a sign from a loved one, and not to receive one. Remember that signs can come in many different ways. Try some of these techniques and open your heart to different possibilities. I can tell you with total confidence that your friends and family in Heaven are with your always, and they want to connect with you just as much as you do with them!
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Hi mom I miss you and hi dad I miss you! And my grandparents and my dog lady! And a great friend Earle Dewey!
Hi Rich. I miss you every day. You’re son is growing so fast and loves to do everything you did. You are always with me.
I would like to say hi to my mom and my brother called love and miss you the most of all I like to say hi to my son who I missed dearly I feel like my heart has been broken since you’re passing 6-7-15 trying to put my life back together and the last three years that you’ve been gone love you always and forever you’re in my heart love Mom
So miss my mom…brother….dad….and my dogs hector and rizzie
Sad sad today
I miss my dad so much that it hurts. I love you Dad, my hero, my friend, my Dad….my EVERYTHING!! Miss you, every second of every day!!Love you, Always and Forever ❤️
hello dad and mom I miss you so sisters and brothers I miss and love you so all my friends how I need you all bless you all
Hi Bob, dad, mom, give all our loved ones a kiss and a hug from me in Heaven, you are all in my heart forever and missed terribly. I love you all ?❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️?
I still remember when you came to me and gave me a most wonderful kiss. you have come to me in many ways since you untimely death in 2013. I miss you so!
Son you have come to be in so many way and l know that our Love never will die it will live forever my son santiago Love Mom.
My father my son and family and friends Love you all live forever in my heart into we meet again in Haven Love mari.
Kevin , I miss you so much! I thought for sure you would have come through tonight at the reading. I will keep my eyes open for signs of you near me! I love you so much!
Hi Ya-Ya. You are the best sister 1 could ask for. I hug my teddy bear with your ashes in it everyday. Love you.
Feel it is.real to connect to my Aunty in this way
Dearest .Aunty Thea missing you so very very much love you to…Phil
Hello to the other side. I miss you every day and think about to often. Thanks for the blue jay feather on my birthday.
I placed it in my dream catcher along with the other feathers you left me.
I love and miss all of you. I know your ok. I’ll be ok too. Watch over dad when I cannot. Send comfort to mom please.
I love you.
My heart ❤️ is overjoyed when I receive the blessings of your presence.
Although death seems final… it’s essentially just another level of our very existence.
I love you all and will see you so very soon.
Hi dad. Its been a month and 2 days already since you passed. My heart us broken. I just miss you so very much, you know youre the most important person for me but now youre gone. I love you, i just feel lonely and alone cause i have noone. All my siblings have families and mom has a partner. ?as for me? Ive noone anymore cause you left. I love you so much daddy
Miss you so much Ma, my mother, my best friend. The one I knew who loved me always. Miss and love you so much.
Wish you were still here with us. Love you.
Sure miss my parents, one really
miss my little daughter
Diane on August 10, 2018 9:33 pm
Miss you so much mom I can still hear your voice in my heart. I miss you Linda everyday miss our talks little sister you will always be in my heart. I miss you daddy thank you for always being there when I needed you love and miss you.
Missing Greg as I remember his sister’s wedding day. I miss Us. Your love and laughter made everything brighter. My tears have ceased but my heart still hurts…..Love you son, miss you so much.
I miss you and need your help. To keep me strong in my new endeavors. I love you
Mom i miss you help me ge through this. I need relief ??????
Bob, I miss and love you so very much. Never goitng to stop grieving for you. Mom and Dad, I love and miss you both.
Oh mom i hate that you had to go. I miss you so very much. I hope that your ok. I love you
Good morning Jimmy thinking of you like I do everyday..praying you will come to me in my dreams.i love you,never forgotten.?
I often wonder what it would be like to just know that both my parents are ok and to be able to feel that relief! I miss both my parents so much and life is never the same after you loose a loved one ! To reconnect with them would bring me so much peace!!
I miss you and think of you every day ! The kids are struggling all differently . Please help us in our own separate needs . We want you back w us so much .
It will just never be the same . How could it ? It’s still a dream or really a nitemare . Loving u forever .
Hello Papa, hello Dad, love you all.
Jimmy The kids and I miss you and love you so much