Looking Back on What Really Matters
When people lose a loved one, the pain is often so strong that they’d do anything to connect with that person again. I get a lot of calls during the early days of loss, and I always urge the bereaved to wait at least a few months before scheduling a reading.
It might seem strange that there’s a “waiting period,” but trust me – when a soul transitions, they have some work to do before they’re ready to come through to a medium. I never thought of passing over requiring a wait until I started talking to the dead on a regular basis – and then it made perfect sense.
So, based on my conversations with thousands of souls, here’s what they’re up to between the time they pass and the time they might come through to a medium or send you a sign that they’re around.
Passing Through the Veil.
First thing, when you pass, you have to “lighten up.” There are many heavy feelings and emotions we hang onto in life, like anger, resentment, judgement, jealousy, and insecurity. When you’re alive you know that those emotions are not doing you any good and you should probably let them go, but it’s hard to do.
Once you pass, you don’t have a choice. When you transition to Heaven you have to release the heavy emotions that weigh your energy down. Imagine trying to cross over dragging resentments and negative energy. Talk about baggage! Heaven wouldn’t be heaven anymore. Transitioning is like passing through a veil or a filter, your energy has to be clear and light to come through.
The Life Review.
Have you ever been in a situation – maybe a class or a workshop – where you were learning something new, and afterwards you felt you needed to sit for a while to absorb what you’d learned? It’s the same thing you pass, except the “workshop” is your whole life.
When a soul transitions, they look back on their time on earth as if they’re watching a movie – only from their new perspective, they can see the events very, very, clearly. Without justifying or getting defensive, they review their life, with all its twists and turns. Some souls take longer than others to complete their review and progress to the next level. They might even have some tasks to do to help them raise their vibration.
It’s kind of like AA in that way – you have to acknowledge what you’ve done and sometimes make amends before you can move on.
The life review shines a light on what really matters in life. When you’re on the other side, you’re no longer attached to your career, your bank balance or your body fat ratio. That’s all fine when you’re alive, but you leave that stuff behind when you die.
What you look back on is the love and compassion you shared, the people you helped, and the difference you made in the world. You also see the unfinished business and the people you hurt. You become fully aware of the ripple effect your behavior had on others. Luckily, it’s never too late to make amends.
When a soul has completed their life review, that’s when they can come through to the living and make things right.
I can think of many examples:
- A woman came to my event and immediately her mother came through apologized for making her daughter feel so guilty for putting her is assisted living.
- A man came through and said that he wished that he could take back the vicious letter he had left for his wife blaming her for his death. He was bipolar and had killed himself, but he regretted blaming her. Looking back, he realized that his problems had nothing to do with her.
- An older woman begged me to let her son know that she should never have pressured him to spend so much time with her, and neglect his own children. She realized in her life review that she was being selfish.
The process of passing over, letting go of negative emotions and looking back on life is a gift that allows the soul to evolve. They have the opportunity to let go of any grudges or negative feelings, go through their life review, and then, when the time is right, help their loved ones on earth to learn from their experience and feel their love.
Forgiveness from Heaven
As a medium I never know who will come through and try to talk to me. I will say I find the best readings happen when someone comes through that you are not expecting to hear from. Because of the life review sometimes souls that you never got or have a closeness with will sometimes come through. For example I recently had a woman’s father come through who she never got to know because he left home when she was just a child. Because of his selfish ways, she never eve knew he died until years later.
After he passed on, he was able to see the hurt and pain he caused his daughter by her not having a Father in her life. He came through with a message for her and explained his actions. He wanted her to know that he took full responsibility and that he was sorry. Because of this message she felt she could finally think of her Dad and smile. It was like in an instant the years of pain just lifted away and she could breathe again.
This is the reason why I have been doing online group readings. It’s not about the individual messages as much as it is a learning experience for us all. The spirits have plenty to teach us and tell us. When we connect with them and listen to their messages, we realize that they never truly have left us. If you would like to attend the next online group reading with me, click here to register.
I think you are wonderful. I want to book a video reading.
Hi Matt ,
I have been following you for a LONG time but have always been hesitant! My Mother is now I’ll and I am.praying her Mom who was our WORLD , who has passed on a few years ago can give her some strength or answers !!!! I pray for some HELP my Mother is so scared and I hope she can keep fighting. She feels so DEFEATED ! I have tried to book online reading but you are SOLD OUT ! Hopefully this message reaches you ! Thank you LOOKING FOR HOPE IN MICHIGAN ??
Just want to know how my parent are doing now they have reunited again.
Hi Matt I think what you do is a beautiful thing for people I have attended to a couple of your group readings on line I jus lost my mom suddenly 3 days ago 12/9 am so devastated because I didn’t talk to her as much as I should of anyways I bought a ticket for February with you looking forward to it love you
I have lost so many loved ones I have so many different things I would love to no can I please have a reading
You’ve been blessed with a gift, I’m glad you’re helping people with closure, not like some of these people using it for financial gain.
Many years ago I did something I’m not proud of and my husband never knew, we were at a really bad patch in our marriage which is no excuse. A month after he passed I had a dream, he was sitting on the bed and told me he knew what I had done, he looked so sad. Now I’m worried he will never forgive me or visit me again. Our love was so strong when he passed but I’m worried that is not enough anymore
I truley belive n you.im waiting on jan7 at 7 for my part n a group reading.i cannot get over the way my knephew was taken from us.been 2 yrs now.
Hi Matt, Just started watching your videos and love your energy. My father passed last year and would like to buy a ticket for one if your group meetings. How do I fund out your availability?
Hi matt would love a reading from you for my mom in law joan newton my mother joan thomas and amy meades my grandparents my father my step dad reggie pa thomas and all our family and friends that died to soon gary david ivan patrick tony cris roy gavin all who died recently that went far too soon so very young and we would like to say hello to them and sorry that we never said our last goodbyes. Thankyou Matt.love your show always i watch most of them my cell number is xxxxxxx.maybe we can see on skype calls from u.thankyou again.
love here from my loved ones that passed. sister grace what she is thinking
I lost my baby sister Molly & her husband 5 weeks from each other. I still feel like is was today. 13years now. It took me 8 years to breathe right and feel my heart.. that killed me for life. They both had cancer. But Larry wasn’t sick at all my sister was fighting 4/1 years. He had a two week from the day he was told he had cancer… That still kills me.. I miss them in my everyday life 🙏🏻🙏🏻
We’re Birthday Buddies…
Hi Matt, I will be turning 70 next month (Jan. 7, 2020.) For the longest time, I have struggled with a profound fear of death. I hope that someday I may be able to connect with my Mom Ruth who passed in 1997. My oldest brother Terry died of Cancer 2 years ago, and my oldest sister Diane died from suicide in 1984. I think that if you can help me connect with her, it will help me to no longer fear death. I hope that someday you can help me. Thanjs so much, Dwight
I have an online with you coming in jan. I never knew my father and i hope he comes through.
I book a on line group meeting January 17. I really hope my only son comes through. I really need to know his okay.
You have a great gift. A gift that helps heal so many. God bless you. Because people suffer so much because they just dont understand what gas happened…and that can be on both sides.
I’ve lost 13 family members, including my 30yo son and 52yo husband. I would love to have a reading
Hi Matt, just lost my younger sister suddenly on October 30th, we wont know results for a few months. She was a very spiritual person and thought she had the gift. I so wished I could connect with her, I talk to her everyday. I feel so angry and sad. So many emotions.
I came across you today, maybe she did this?!.. going to order your book and attend one of your online meetings.
Just listening to you makes me feel better!!
Hugs and thank you
Matt I feel the same way about you. That you could help me better with a one on one. My father passed 14 year’s ago this year. And I’m the last living person in my whole family. I do have two children (Adult) and six grandchildren. That’s all I can allow myself to say. I’m sure you’ll know the rest..
Thank you kindly for reading this.
Hopefully I will be able to hear from you in some way. You already know my situation.
my sister hoping she is with my mother and father and if she made up with them. and if she is sorry who she left everything to.
I am just happened to know you. Your positive energy just got me. I watch your videos every night for, at least, half an hour. Your readings seems SO very accurate, we will see if you can see my loved ones when time will come. Do not know if possible because they did not, any of them, speak any English. No speaking, no understanding.
Hi Matt. I’ve been following you and watching you online recently. I was struck by your super positive attitude you have and I can just tell that you’re a good person! I signed up for your online reading on Jan 14th! I’m excited for it and of course hope you can pick me for a reading, but if not I’ll be happy to be a part of it and listening to others stories/ testimonials. It is type of healing for me as the loss I had a little over 2 years ago was more than I could bear as well as my loss almost 30 years ago! 🙁
Hi Matt! I’ve always been a believer when it came to signs from the other side and I’ve always believed I was spiritual but lately it’s been hard for me to see much of anything. January 1, 2019 my youngest Granddaughter passed away and then January 11, 2020 my Mother passed away. My Husband also lost a brother last year. I live in constant fear of loosing another loved one. I spend most days sad and crying and fearful. I scheduled a live reading with you for next month. For some reason you just kept popping up at me and everytime, I just get a feeling so I was like why not. 🌻
While attending an online reading, I thankfully noticed that even others messages were still very relevant and relieving to hear. It felt to me that I was getting my messages, just indirectly. I hope you will find this feedback helpful as you join the online reading on 1/14.
Hello Matt , No I have not heard about Life Review & all I know is when I read it I knew somehow it resides in me because , in Illinois I never got to say goodbye & I even blamed myself & even when we came to Florida never got to say goodbye either & when my aunt passed I had so many questions & I still do like if she forgives me lucky I’ve been getting signs from my aunt like a song a smell of lavender & popcorn & so all I want to know is what does this mean does this mean she forgives me I don’t know & is the reason I need a personal reading from you so I can get my question answered . We also had a sudden death in my family that when it hit me I had server back pain for a long time & I was wondering if my cousin that passed had something to say to me to help my other cousin because the cousin that had passed was her husband that passed from Pancreatic Cancer. Thank you
Hi Matt, I lost my son John on August 27, 2020. He was working in North Dakota and had a massive heart attack, at work. I miss him so much. I’m going to ask for a reading but not before February. As soon as I can afford it. I believe you were sent to me too let me know that he is okay.
I signed up to you when my sister died March 4,2020(Covid)…. your words & inspiration have helped me a lot! I look forward to ur next email❤️Peace
I am a true believer that my family members who hav passed r always watching over me-YOU, Matt, have showed me that my belief is not in vain-there is a heaven!! I ask that my beloved past family members continue to watch over me & guide me… peace & love to u all❤️
I really enjoyed reading that 🙂 Was wondering, do some souls reincarnate?
Andy, I have spent hours watching videos about children speaking of past lives. Dr.Brian Weiss has studied this and was on the Oprah show. Look into it, its very powerful. Also near death experiences are amazing stories to read also. I have attending 10+ of Matt’s online readings, 3 in person and even was lucky enough to be read in May! My grand father came through discussing my fathers health, however it was my mother who was sick and the focus. Well a few days later my mother texted me and shared that my dad lost weight and the doctors were concerned, and after that he was diagnosed with bladder cancer. Its wasn’t clear at the time of the reading that Matt was nailing it, but he was!!!!
hi Matt,i enjoy watching you,,,i have a question,,my mother died nov, 26,2000,,we were so close,her death completly changed my life,she ,,would of been 74 a month later,,ever since her death i have heard her knocking on my bedroom door,,no matter where i move to,,my hushand cannot hear it just me,its just a couple of loud knockes,,what do you think about that?
I’ve been wondering this also, do some reincarnate? Is it choice? How does reincarnation work? Hope you can let us know about this Matt, thanks!
I lost my only true love, he was mad at me when passed, I wasn’t there when he passed his grown kids wouldn’t let me know, he said he knew I loved him, and he loved me. His house cleaner told me that. I apologized several times, but he stayed mad.
Hi Matt I just wanted to let you know that I have been recently online watching your readings watching you on television shows and reading up on you and your gift thank you so much for teaching me the things that you have already like for instance the Life review I totally get it now totally it makes total sense to me thank you and please stay online and I will continue to learn from you you’re a wonderful person with a wonderful gift
Hi. I just came across you on Facebook.
I want to do an on line booking but not sure if I’m ready as there are so many who’ve passed.
thx much for the invitation :). I am expert of pandemic, and i can help you.
PS: How are you? I am from France 🙂 very good forum 🙂 mixx
What do we do to get through this?
Are there souls who never pass over? Who get stuck in limbo? Reading your blog all I can think of is I know someone who I feel is stuck, they won’t cross over. I worry for them everyday. Have you ever helped someone cross over?
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Hello my son died July 2019 and I am so heartbroken in pain my Dr. said it was broken heart syndrome. I can’t live my life like I used to nothing my two daughters feel hurt my husband I even ignore. The only way I can explain is despair this is my hell. I would like to have a private reading with you if possible.
Dont know how it happened but saw you on fb a couple of days ago and was drawn to you.
I think you are marvellous the way you connect with spirit and pass messages on to their loved ones.
I ordered your new book last night and looking forward to reading it.
Do you come over to the UK?
I would love a reading with you.
My husband passed away in May and I miss him terribly. I would like to know he is OK and safe. Is he with me? I feel I cant move on.
I enjoy your articles. I lost my sister suddenly about 10 years ago to a heart
condition. Neither of us are ‘religious’ but are spiritual. In her early 20’s, she was in a very bad relationship, got pregnant & decided to terminate the pregnancy. I supported her decision and stood by her. I was wondering, if in her ‘life review’, this event was a lesson learned and how would it affect her in the next incarnation. I miss her terribly and wish I could communicate with her in some spiritual form. Thanks for all the good you do for people.
Ir hit home when you said AA. I’ve been to AA/NA and clean 11 half years. My brother died from this disease that we have on Christmas day 4 years ago. I tried but couldn’t help him. Thank you for being you.
I very much agree with this. I’m just wondering about babies that pass during or just after birth. How long should we wait in these situations?
I still would like to know how u could do a reading on my 2 year old granddaughter I miss so much
I look forward to JUST the fact of being online live with you, my son will be 8 years Jan 8 that he passed along with his father who passed 9 months before, l now lost my mother Nov 12, my compadre Nov 17 and now my baby sister Dec 9 amongst 3 others. It’s taken a toll on my heart. I’m hopeful we will get a message that will bring some lifted pain, l have booked two tickets one in Jan and one in February. So excited for them
Losing my Dad October 2019 I am at lost . We were so. So close . Reading this and listening to some of your online videos has put me a little at ease .. You have helped me understand a lot and I Thank you so very much for taking the time out of your life to help all of us!
Much love and God Bless
Why do.some souls get left behind in our plain and cause mischeif
My boyfriend passed away unexpectedly. He was only 38. I feel him around me and am getting signs! You have helped me so much. See you jan31 for my on line reading ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Think of that clarity of what you’ve done as feeling the feelings of those you have either blessed, or harmed.
Through their experience. Its intense. Hate is so insignificant there. But love? Even the weakest love is so amplified in how you feel it. I joke that describing the afterlife is like trying to paint the ceiling of a cathedral with an 8 count box of Crayola crayons. Please be comforted by this man’s words. Your loved ones love you.
And, no. They tell you the combination to the safe. I’ve tried .😇
I would love to do a private reading if possible. I know your busy but our family has a lot of unanswered questions about my brothers death back in May. Any way possible would you please contact me. Thank you. I love watching you and reading your books they help.
Oh Matt….thank you for sharing…..you put into words the feelings and knowing that God has given to me through my experiences. Your words allow my brain to sort and categorize what’s been growing inside of me. I feel like the other half of me is now opening to where I can actually feel like there is a breeze a wind a clearing inside of me. I don’t know if that makes sense. Lol …. but it is wonderful, fabulous, exciting, and important because I am helping my three children walk through the grieving process. I lost my husband recently and the more I understand the more I can help my children. God bless you and protect you always.
Thank you so much for this. I attended the Nov 27th reading and am looking forward for Feb 7ths reading. I did not get picked for a reading with the understanding my loved ones were not ready to come through and selfishly I was a little sad and upset as I really wanted to hear from my Dad. However, reading this clears up so much! I appreciate you!
Sabrina D when had your dad passed before you did the Nov 27th reading? I too am wondering if I am pushing too soon on my dad.
Does re re incarnation exist?
My wife just passed this Monday, I feel lost, broken, out of it, like a zombie….. I just booked a private reading for January 2021, now that I read this now I feel like I should’ve waited. She started following you in June and told me, “you know Coco, I’m not scared of dying anymore” and now that she’s gone I feel devastated wanted to know from her.
I wish there was a way to at least leave a message to ask if you can even help us but for some reason there’s no place where we can just leave a simple message if you have time to message just to hear if you can even help o greatly appreciate it
I am constantly seeing 11:11.. Daily! I have many close family members that have passed and I am really trying to figure out who is trying to send me the message. There doesn’t seem to be any correlation between seeing the numbers and feeling anybody in particular, please help me on how I can try to figure this out 💔
please advise how to book a reading with you ? i want to be in the waiting list
….Running through the cosmos when I leave my body at night is very strange. I’m spinning out of control then end up in very odd situations. Any way to control where I go? Also, I fly past scenes where I want to stop and explore but I can’t….Kim….
I have seen other mediums and I think it’s your magnetic personality that has drawn me to you. I never ordered a book on line. I usually go to a second hand bookstore to buy books. A little voice in my ear told me to buy your book. I did buy it. And love it. Easy reading. You have taught me to talk to my mom and dad. You have made me feel better knowing my parents hear and see what I do. You have made me understand the spirit world. I now look for signs where before I didn’t. Buona Natale to you Alexa and the rest of the family.
Matt….every time I miss my parents in heaven, I get a message from you in my email. After 50 years of marriage, my husband decided he didnt want to spend the rest of his life with me. I was in a very very controlling marriage and had to leave the state of RI which I lived in for 45 years and start all over again in upstate NY. I felt helpless until I felt the presence of my mother and father. The signs are everywhere and help me so much.( every morning I hear the song Earth Angel and know its my parents saying good morning) Even the game I play “Words with friends” spelled out her name RHODA. I am a numbers person and so many license plates have my parents initials or numbers relating to their birth dates. Thank you for helping me get through 2019-20. Miss hearing your readings on LITE 105!!
Hi Matt, I was reading the life review and can’t stop crying.I lost my father 6 months ago and I miss him so much.I hope he is all right and not suffering any more. I didnt know the pain of loosing someone you live until now and it hurt too much. I can’t let him go and I wish all this is true and he can contact you so me and my mom will be at peace and he is all right now. Is missed so much from family, was a wonderful husband, father and grandfather.
What happens to babies that are aborted?
Hi Matt my name is Alicia and I lost my dad in September we got to get really close together and I have closure that we got to bond though sometimes I feel like I feel him or smell his cologne I’m taking care of my mother who is on hospice and trying to do the best I can though I see her day is coming soon but during all this there is this guy I really cared about with known each other for a little while and I started really falling for him and I feel like it’s my fault I didn’t save his life he passed away in my house a little love to see if there’s way I could get some closure on this I would so appreciate it
Hi Matt….questions for you. On the 21st of Dec. 2020 will be the 2nd year since my son passed and on Oct. 11th, 2020 was the 2nd year my mother passed. Yes, they passed away just 2 months apart of each other. One evening I was watching television and it happened to be my mom’s favourite show. Then I felt a heaviness in my body and thought it might have been my mother but soon after the heavy feeling left me. That was my 1st time ever feeling that and I’m wondering if that is what a spiritual family member can do to get your attention? A few nights later and I wasn’t asleep, but had just gone to bed. A voice was heard at my ear telling me “I love you” and I am certain that was my son as that was something I told him every day. Is it possible to distinguish between the spirits that visit me in that way? Of course this is not the very 1st spiritual visits that I’ve ever had, my uncle once came to me in a vision at the end of my bed and said not to worry about him because he was in a very good place. That was my very 1st spiritual visit but that was a number of years ago, and also years ago someone screamed my full 1st name while I was sleeping, I awoke and sat upright, and I’ve often thought that was my step-dad due to me being diabetic. I thought maybe that was a sign that something could be wrong with me. I got up right away and made sure all was good. Do all connections come in a variety of ways? My mother used to be able to connect with spirits and I wonder if I have been given that trait too? I’m often leery of talking about these events with anyone. I think I might scare others.
You are one interesting man. I love reading about the after life and how you connect with spirit.
However, I do wish you would connect with pets that have passed over a little more often.
I believe so many people have a very difficult time after a beloved pet has passed. Some times it is more difficult dealing with the death of a pet than the death of a loved one that was human.
We never know if a pet truly understands how much we love them and miss them long after they have passed.
You are a blessing with a real gift.
I’ve followed your site for a while and signed up for a group reading I’ve also bought your book When heaven calls very interesting. Please let me know when you will do a reading for me. Thank you.
I foster dogs and sometimes have to make the sad decision, due to their health, that the person who dumped them at the shelter did not want to make. I always stay to love on them as they go, will they forgive me for not being able to fix them? Will they wait for their owner who left them at the shelter to die alone?
Hi Matt , I just recently started following you .. my boyfriend Matt of 13 years passed away back in April of this year . He was 45 and it was not expected . Watching you has helped me to not be as stressed out about his passing .. Thank you so much for what you are doing !!!
I just started following you after my mom passed away its hard she was my rock
Thank you Matt! You are a beautiful human being, whom gives so much of himself to help humanity understand spirit. Your gifts are so special and helpful for those people who dont understand how the spirit world works. I see the unconditional love in you and appreciate all you teach us.
Would love a reading from you.
Have a niece and nephew that was killed and we are helping take care of there children and my parents and two sisters see if they come thru
Hi Matt, I’ve been reading your emails since my husband passed away suddenly on April 2, 2019. I LOVED and LOVE him so very much, I wish he could talk to me. But every once in awhile, I hear our wedding song on the radio and it’s either on our Wedding Anniversary or my birthday or the birthday of our precious Kayleigh Celtic Creme, our little toy poodle. So, I imagine he is trying to convey his love for me and our little dog. I hope. I do enjoy your emails and would one day like to join in on one of your online group meetings. Have a blessed Christmas, Matt, to you and your family, this holiday season.
Hi Matt, I really do believe my husband directed me to you as I was really having a difficult time since I lost my husband of 34 years in June 2020, sadly I have lost all my family, some days I feel like an orphan thank god for my children also one day before my husband passed away I was gifted with my first grandson who eases the pain.
As I say I was definitely directed to you by my husband, I am 100% sure of that I also have a regular visit from the Robin in the garden since he passed and tunes that link me to my husband play on the radio when I am really low I have made good progress since finding you, I watch all your youtube readings I have had one class already on Grief and will do further classes without you coming into my life I would have been so lost and my life would have been empty. I was lucky to get a space on your online reading for the 21st January 2021 unfortunately as I live in England UK I could not enter my mobile number correctly I feel I will not be included, maybe Matt someone can assist me, I really hope you make it over to England UK once we make it through Covid. Bless you and your family stay safe and once again thank you, also impossible to buy your book anywhere.
Seasons greetings and blessings to the spirit world who assist you.
I would like a session is that possible?
Seems pretty funny that I received this Email on the that my mom passed Dec.11th 2011 .Ever sense I was very small I new that when a person is passing they go threw a review But I really never thought about it until now and yes you do see all that you have done threw your pass it flashes before your eyes. How do I know this ” I really am not sure but everything flashes so fast from the time your small to the time of death or maybe should say passing to the other side .I miss my mother she is my world and has never been the same with family members..She is are Rock that kepted us all together broken hearted
Love this Life Review lesson! I’ve been to several of your zoom events and once in person. I love that even though I have not yet received a personal reading through you, I ALWAYS connect to my loved ones through other people’s relateable readings and experiences. ♡ Looking forward to 2/11/21🥰😇
Hi buddy I just found you and wondering if you mite be able to help me understand quite a few things that happened on the night my dear partner Kelly passed away
I’m bogged down and can’t move on
It is very pleasing to find a medium such as yourself, that is the real deal and helps people understand or heal. I found you on facebook one day, knowing nothing is an accident. I am really grateful as in life I have family members who treat me badly. Their problem in life and to deal with in death before passing over ….thankyou.
Hi Matt, I have been following you since I found you on FB. My son, passed away on Friday, November 13th, this year and I had talked with him that morning and begged him to go to the doctor because he was hurt really bad in a car wreck on Mew Year’s day and needed surgery on his neck. He didn’t go but he decided to go to an Auto parts store and however on the way home I tried to text him because I would get these feelings when something was wrong and just as I was texting him my phone was actually ringing to let me know I needed to get to the hospital as he was in cardiac arrest and by the time I got there, he was gone, however when I went up to the bed in tears, I actually heard the heart monitor beep 2 beeps and then it was like he was telling me he knew I was there. I am going to try to get in one of your online readings but I will wait until he is ready. I very well understand about trying to hear from recently passed love ones and I truly believe our loved ones will send signs to you, which I feel that he is already doing things to let me know like I see his son’s month and day that his son was born which lived with me and my late husband as well as his dad. However, I am having a hard time losing my son he was only 49 years old and I can’t get past his loss. Hoping you will continue the online sessions because I have lost so many of my loved ones in my immediate family as well as my best friend and would like to hear from them.