When you’re a medium, you don’t see death the same way most people do. That shouldn’t surprise anyone!

After all, I talk to dead people all the time and prove to myself and thousands of people every day that when someone close to you dies, it’s not over. Those precious souls are still watching over you, sending you signs, and loving you as much as ever.

But while that understanding can soften the blow of losing someone, it doesn’t mean you won’t miss having them with you in the physical sense. Their absence leaves a hole in your life.

You’d probably give anything to have mom, dad, or grandma by your side during every one of life’s big events like weddings, graduations, and the birth of babies. You long for their guidance and support for the little decisions and challenges that come up every day.

I can’t even count the number of people who have come to me, so distraught, because they don’t know how they can go on with their own lives after they lose someone.

But if you feel like you can’t move on from grief, remember this…

Grief has a silver lining. It gives you an opportunity to understand what really matters, to prove to yourself that love endures even after death – and it might even guide you toward finding your true purpose.


What really matters?


Souls in Heaven love you and want you to live your best, happiest life – and from their Heavenly perspective they know what’s important in the grand scheme of things. When someone passes, their soul goes through a life review where they see the impact of all their actions on Earth.

They review how they treated people, what they accomplished, and the decisions they made – and they learn a lot!

After their review, they want to use that knowledge. If you’re tuned in to their energy, they’ll put thoughts in your head or send you signs. They might even “push” you to see a medium!

In whatever way they can, they’ll guide you in the right direction, so when you pass over, you can look back during your own life review and be happy with what you see.


Trust That Your Loved One Will Always be With You – During Big Moments and Small.


Open your heart and mind and let your loved one in. Ask them questions, look at photos of them and share funny stories. Share your life with them through your thoughts. And for the best results, do it from a happy, joyful place. Remember, souls are attracted to love, laughter, and celebration.

Here’s an example:

I was recently reading for a mother and daughter who wanted to connect with the father of the family. He had died a year ago, and as soon as he came through, he was persistent in telling me he had been there at the birthday celebration they had for him after they passed.


He showed me his daughter walking into a hotel ballroom with a big cake. His family had been planning a lavish 50th surprise party for a year before he died. They couldn’t get their deposit back, so they thought “What the heck!” They went ahead and sent out the invites and gathered to honor his memory. It turned out to be the best party ever – friends and family laughed and cried and celebrated his life. He validated what they had already sensed – that he had been there for the whole thing. In fact, he’d even looked back to watch all the planning that had taken place.


Find Your Purpose.


Sometimes, the shock of a loss can move people in positive directions. You might finally take the leap and pursue your dream job, take a trip to a place you’ve always wanted to go, or even end a destructive relationship. Losing someone reminds us that life is short, and sometimes you just have to take a chance. And when you do, know that your loved one is right there, cheering you on.


Everyone Wants to Leave the World a Better Place


You don’t have to go to great lengths to honor your loved one’s legacy. We tend to think of honoring someone with a statue or a scholarship fund. They don’t think that way. They’re happy if you can use what they taught you to fulfill your purpose, be happy, and help and inspire others. They love seeing the positive impact they had on your life, and want to see you pay it forward and make a difference in the lives of others.

By helping you – during their lives or by guiding you after they pass, they have the joy of knowing they left the world a better place.


Reconnecting with Heaven. 


What I love most about the reading that I give is that they show families that your loved ones have not changed all the much in the spirit world. Even if your loved one passed away many years ago, their love for you is just as strong as it was before passing. I am always amazed by the pain that is healed with every message that I pass on. If you would like a reading I really hope that you will join me at an online reading or LIVE event by Clicking Here.

These events are so much more that an event. To me it is a powerful family reunion where two worlds meet!