Sending A Message To Heaven

Sending A Message To Heaven


How Can I Get A Message To My Loved One In Heaven ? 


People ask me all the time, “Matt, can you tell my loved one how much I love them.” I tell them it doesn’t work that way. As a medium, I deliver messages from heaven, but you don’t need me to talk to someone who has passed. You can connect with them at any time. Your loved one is literally just a thought away. The moment a loved one in heaven comes to mind, picture yourself ringing a doorbell or sending a text. The minute you think about them, they are alerted.


But there are other ways to send a message:

  • You can say a message out loud
  • Have a conversation with them in your head
  • Write it down on a piece of paper

Whatever way you choose to reach out, they will get the message and know it’s from you.


Wait! What Do I Say?


I remember when my grandmother was alive, she loved talking to me. It didn’t matter what I was telling her, she just loved the connection. It’s the same now that she is in heaven. Your loved one loves hearing from you as much as you enjoy hearing from them. You can tell them just about anything:

  • Tell them about your day
  • Let them know what family members are up to
  • Ask for their help: “Mom, I have a job interview, please help me with my anxiety.”

Don’t overthink things. The same things you’d talk about when you were both in this world can be communicated to them when they pass. If you loved telling your mom funny stories about the kids, or asking your dad for advice, don’t stop when they pass.


Visiting the Grave Site


People make a big point of going to the grave of a loved one, but to be honest, that’s more comforting for the living person. The dead person doesn’t care where you are, just that you’re thinking of them.

The person you’re talking to isn’t in the ground, and you can talk to them anywhere—in the car, in the shower, when you walk the dog. I was doing a reading, and the woman kept thinking, I hope my mom doesn’t know about Billy! I asked her, “Who is Billy?” “How did you know? she asked, Are you reading my mind?”

“No, your mom told me! She can hear your thoughts.”

It turns out Billy was an old flame whom her mom hadn’t liked, and they were dating again. She didn’t want her mother to know, but you can’t keep things from someone who has passed, and you don’t have to!

Your loved ones in heaven aren’t judging you, although they might see the situation for what it is and gently steer you in the right direction.


I could go on and on explaining this, but that is the exact reason why I wrote my new book ‘ We Never Die: Secrets of the Afterlife’. If you would like to learn more about Heaven and the afterlife, I invite you to pre-order your copy below.



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Book Cover with Matt Fraser standing with a gold jacketPsychic medium Matt Fraser, the author of When Heaven Calls, is back with a book that answers the question everyone wants to know the answer to: “What happens after death?” Although the answer might seem complicated, it’s actually pretty simple: We never die.

Drawing from his personal experiences as America’s top psychic medium and the thousands of conversations he’s had with those in spirit, Matt will pull back the curtain on life’s hidden question. He’ll dive into what happens when we cross over, explore the beautiful realities of heaven and eternal life, the guardian angels who keep us safe on earth (including our pets), and much more. He’ll also explain how we can tune into our own inner psychic medium and better recognize the signs and messages our loved ones send us from heaven. As Matt explains, “We all have our own ‘phone line’ to communicate with heaven. All we have to do is figure out how to use it.”

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The Silver Lining of Grief

The Silver Lining of Grief

When you’re a medium, you don’t see death the same way most people do. That shouldn’t surprise anyone!

After all, I talk to dead people all the time and prove to myself and thousands of people every day that when someone close to you dies, it’s not over. Those precious souls are still watching over you, sending you signs, and loving you as much as ever.

But while that understanding can soften the blow of losing someone, it doesn’t mean you won’t miss having them with you in the physical sense. Their absence leaves a hole in your life.

You’d probably give anything to have mom, dad, or grandma by your side during every one of life’s big events like weddings, graduations, and the birth of babies. You long for their guidance and support for the little decisions and challenges that come up every day.

I can’t even count the number of people who have come to me, so distraught, because they don’t know how they can go on with their own lives after they lose someone.

But if you feel like you can’t move on from grief, remember this…

Grief has a silver lining. It gives you an opportunity to understand what really matters, to prove to yourself that love endures even after death – and it might even guide you toward finding your true purpose.


What really matters?


Souls in Heaven love you and want you to live your best, happiest life – and from their Heavenly perspective they know what’s important in the grand scheme of things. When someone passes, their soul goes through a life review where they see the impact of all their actions on Earth.

They review how they treated people, what they accomplished, and the decisions they made – and they learn a lot!

After their review, they want to use that knowledge. If you’re tuned in to their energy, they’ll put thoughts in your head or send you signs. They might even “push” you to see a medium!

In whatever way they can, they’ll guide you in the right direction, so when you pass over, you can look back during your own life review and be happy with what you see.


Trust That Your Loved One Will Always be With You – During Big Moments and Small.


Open your heart and mind and let your loved one in. Ask them questions, look at photos of them and share funny stories. Share your life with them through your thoughts. And for the best results, do it from a happy, joyful place. Remember, souls are attracted to love, laughter, and celebration.

Here’s an example:

I was recently reading for a mother and daughter who wanted to connect with the father of the family. He had died a year ago, and as soon as he came through, he was persistent in telling me he had been there at the birthday celebration they had for him after they passed.


He showed me his daughter walking into a hotel ballroom with a big cake. His family had been planning a lavish 50th surprise party for a year before he died. They couldn’t get their deposit back, so they thought “What the heck!” They went ahead and sent out the invites and gathered to honor his memory. It turned out to be the best party ever – friends and family laughed and cried and celebrated his life. He validated what they had already sensed – that he had been there for the whole thing. In fact, he’d even looked back to watch all the planning that had taken place.


Find Your Purpose.


Sometimes, the shock of a loss can move people in positive directions. You might finally take the leap and pursue your dream job, take a trip to a place you’ve always wanted to go, or even end a destructive relationship. Losing someone reminds us that life is short, and sometimes you just have to take a chance. And when you do, know that your loved one is right there, cheering you on.


Everyone Wants to Leave the World a Better Place


You don’t have to go to great lengths to honor your loved one’s legacy. We tend to think of honoring someone with a statue or a scholarship fund. They don’t think that way. They’re happy if you can use what they taught you to fulfill your purpose, be happy, and help and inspire others. They love seeing the positive impact they had on your life, and want to see you pay it forward and make a difference in the lives of others.

By helping you – during their lives or by guiding you after they pass, they have the joy of knowing they left the world a better place.


Reconnecting with Heaven. 


What I love most about the reading that I give is that they show families that your loved ones have not changed all the much in the spirit world. Even if your loved one passed away many years ago, their love for you is just as strong as it was before passing. I am always amazed by the pain that is healed with every message that I pass on. If you would like a reading I really hope that you will join me at an online reading or LIVE event by Clicking Here.

These events are so much more that an event. To me it is a powerful family reunion where two worlds meet!

A Special Visit from Heaven

A Special Visit from Heaven

The First Soul Connection

Growing up with a psychic Mom was never boring. I have vivid memories of her having premonitional dreams. There were many mornings when she woke up happy and excited after dreaming that a friend or family member was having a baby. She’d rush to the phone to call the person and share the good news, “I had a dream that you were pregnant!”

For her, the dreams always followed the same pattern. A departed family member would appear in her dream holding a child that would soon be sent down to his or her mother here in this world. The souls were always eager to share this news with my Mom because they knew she would pass the message along to the new parent to be. Usually, her predication would be within a just a few days of the couple getting their positive pregnancy test result.

My mother is a gifted psychic and medium, but dreams and visitations like this can happen to anyone. In fact, it happened to my wife Alexa.

A Dream Come True!

From just about the moment we met, Alexa and I always planned on getting married and starting a family. That plan went into action the moment we each said “I do” back in October. However, when Alexa received her first two negative pregnancy tests, she started to feel sad, anxious, and even a little nervous. She wanted to see that positive mark on the test so badly!

One night, she was really stressing herself out. “What if I don’t get pregnant?” she asked. I could see the worry on her face, but I reassured her it would all happen in God’s time – when it was meant to be. Luckily, I didn’t have to wait long for her mood to shift. That very night she went to bed and woke up a changed person. She shook me out of a sound sleep, excitedly telling me she had met our son.

In Alexa’s dream, she was pregnant and gave birth to a little baby boy. She saw herself singing to him in the car, dressing him up in cute outfits – she could see his personality as he waved and interacted with her in the dream. The details were so vivid! He loved Winnie the Pooh, Disney music, and car rides. He was sassy and energetic. She woke up and knew she had met our son. After so many years as a child, watching my own mom have these same types of dreams, I knew it was real.

Alexa connected with our “dream baby” so strongly that she began to miss him – wondering if she would ever get to hold him and love him in real life. To our delight, we discovered two weeks later she was pregnant. The moment she got that result, I knew it was him. Our son!


Confirmation & Validation

Sure enough, when we went to the doctor for blood work, and it was confirmed that we were having a boy. As a medium, I’ve had souls explain how babies wait in Heaven to be born. I know for sure our boy was waiting and couldn’t resist dropping in on Alexa to let her know. Since I’m the psychic, you would think that I would’ve known first! However, our little baby decided to give Alexa the upper hand on this one.

This wouldn’t be the first time a baby visited its mother or father before being born. I have talked to many people who have had similar experiences. When we’re in a subconscious state, we’re more open to Spirit connections, which is why so many souls visit us in our dreams. It’s not just babies, relatives, ancestors, and friends that have passed away will also make their appearances in our dreams.


Remember, that dreams can be a sign that Spirit is around you. Don’t pass it off as wishful thinking – if you have a dream that seems especially vivid, write down the details as soon as you wake up. You might have a deceased loved one trying to close out some unfinished business, or you might be expecting a new little blessing from Heaven!

Beginning Your Soul’s Journey

Beginning Your Soul’s Journey

The separation between Heaven and Earth isn’t a wall or a gate. It’s more like an invisible curtain which can be crossed freely. As a medium, I reach across that veil to connect with the Spirit realm, but it goes both ways. Souls, Guides, and Angels pass through just as frequently to visit the living.

A Family Reunion in Heaven.


Did you know that we all begin our life journey from the same place? Everyone starts out as a soul in Heaven. Before you are born you gather with those who passed before you – including your grandparents, great great grandparents and even ancestors who died centuries earlier.

At the same time that you meet your extended family in the spirit world, you’re assigned a spirit guide and guardian Angel. They’re excited to join you on the journey that lies ahead!

When a baby is born, they don’t consciously remember the time they spent with loved ones in Heaven, but that’s not important. What is important is that the loved ones remember. Some will remain with the child throughout their life. They will be there to provide support, guidance, and love.

It might seem strange, but it’s no different from the way living family members rush to see a new baby born into the family. Once you accept that you’re part of a soul family that exists in Heaven and is watching over you with the same love as your Earth family, it makes perfect sense. But that doesn’t mean people don’t sometimes get surprised by spirit visitors!

Recently on my Facebook page I got a message from a mother and father who were experiencing that exact situation.

The couple posted footage from their baby monitor on my Facebook page. At 3:00 am they were awoken by the sound of their baby laughing and giggling in his crib. When they checked the baby monitor, they saw bright orbs flying around the baby’s head, and the child was having a great time interacting with them. It’s not unusual for a camera pick up orbs, which often appear as small floating circles. The camera is actually picking up on the energy of spirit. I recognized that this footage was a spirit visitation, and as I watched, it was obvious there was nothing to fear.


The poor parents didn’t see it that way! They were afraid the orbs represented something negative- maybe a force that was trying to possess or harm their child – when in fact, it was totally the opposite. They were seeing the spirits of Angels and loved ones stopping by to visit the baby. I was able to reassure them that their baby was in no danger. I know they believed me, but I have a feeling they slept with one eye on the baby monitor for a while.


Your Spirit guides and Angels are always there, even if you get older and don’t feel them as strongly.

Heavenly visitations are the reason some children see and interact with imaginary friends. Many children will see great grandparents, angels, and even people who have recently passed away.

As they age, most people become less aware of their connection with Spirit. It doesn’t mean their loved ones aren’t there, only that most adults are less open to seeing the signs and feeling the energy of Spirit visitors. They might see things like orbs in photographs, but often pass it off as a glitch with the camera or a trick of the light.

The best way for an adult to open to Spirit visitors is to make a conscious effort to tune in. Talk to your guides and angels, keep your eyes open for signs from Heaven, and use your intuition to sense when Spirit might be near. If you want to take your Spirit awareness to the next level, I offer courses on my website, to provide tips and guidance. You can view all my courses by Clicking Here.

From before you are born till the day you die – and beyond – remember that you are not alone. When you see a sign, or spot an orb in a photo, take it as a reminder to us that Heaven does exist and that our loved ones are always with us

Do Spirits Eat, Sleep or use the Bathroom?

Do Spirits Eat, Sleep or use the Bathroom?

From My New Book ‘We Never Die: Secrets of the Afterlife’


So many people lately have been asking me about Heaven lately and it seems this question almost always comes up. Do spirits eat and go to the bathroom?


This is actually a tricky one. There’s not a yes or no answer, but maybe this story will help clarify.


I once did a reading for a family, and their grandpa came through. When he was alive, his evening ritual was to sit in his recliner and eat ice cream, and that’s exactly what he showed me. The family was surprised: “Wait, people in heaven eat?”


People in heaven can eat, but they don’t have to. They often come through doing the things they loved in life. It’s not uncommon for me to see a chef cooking in the kitchen, or a father drinking a cup of coffee.


It’s important to know that just because food comes up in a reading, it doesn’t mean souls are eating three meals a day. They don’t need food to survive (they’re dead, after all), but they still take place in activities that represent their personalities and who they were in


life.Do I think that spirits might occasionally pour themselves a glass of wine and enjoy it with other souls? I know they do, but it’s more of a symbolic thing than an actual meal or drink. Food and drinks have a whole different significance in heaven.


Enjoying What He Had Missed in Life


A family came to me whose father had passed. Before he died, he was having a terrible time with food. He was on a GI tube and couldn’t stand the fact that he couldn’t enjoy his favorite meals. He begged his family for a steak or a hamburger. They couldn’t give it to him, and he suffered with those cravings for years until he passed.


When he came through in the reading, he was surrounded by food—steak, mashed potatoes, cheesecake—and he told me he’d gained back all the weight he had lost while he was ill. His family was so happy to see him back to his old self and enjoying the foods that he’d been denied when he was ill.


When a loved one passes away, they want you to remember them happy. This reading was very healing for the family and for the soul himself because it replaced the image they had of him being thin, hungry, and frustrated, with the image of his healthy, happy self in heaven surrounded by his favorite foods.


Overall, spirits don’t need the same things that we do to survive, because survival isn’t an issue anymore. There are no hospitals or cemeteries in heaven. If you see a family member jogging, showering, or eating a burger in heaven, that’s just a way for them to come through to you.


What you’re seeing isn’t really your loved one eating. The earthly activity they’re showing you is a link to their old self and the personality they still have in heaven.


This makes me think of Casper the Friendly Ghost! I loved that cartoon when I was a kid, and I remember when Casper’s uncles were sitting at the table eating, and the was food going right through them. They didn’t need the food, but they were still connected to the act of eating.



Pre-Order ‘ We Never Die: Secrets of the Afterlife


Book Cover with Matt Fraser standing with a gold jacketPsychic medium Matt Fraser, the author of When Heaven Calls, is back with a book that answers the question everyone wants to know the answer to: “What happens after death?” Although the answer might seem complicated, it’s actually pretty simple: We never die.

Drawing from his personal experiences as America’s top psychic medium and the thousands of conversations he’s had with those in spirit, Matt will pull back the curtain on life’s hidden question. He’ll dive into what happens when we cross over, explore the beautiful realities of heaven and eternal life, the guardian angels who keep us safe on earth (including our pets), and much more. He’ll also explain how we can tune into our own inner psychic medium and better recognize the signs and messages our loved ones send us from heaven. As Matt explains, “We all have our own ‘phone line’ to communicate with heaven. All we have to do is figure out how to use it.” 

Click Here To Pre-Order ‘ We Never Die’ Right Now! 


Shield Yourself from Energy Vampires & Dark Energy

Shield Yourself from Energy Vampires & Dark Energy

The Truth About Negative Energy – And How To Protect Yourself From It


One of the interesting things about being a medium is how it virtually erases your fear of anything related to ghosts, spirits, and the afterlife. Many people think it’s just the opposite. They worry that seeing a medium will open up a portal that lets ghosts and malignant energy through. I can assure you, that is not true. Just like with so many things in life, the more you understand something and the more time you spend around it, the less scary it becomes.


Mediumship and Negative Energy


Mediumship couldn’t be more far removed from ghost stories and horror movies. Take it from me, connecting someone with a loved one who has passed over is the most positive, light-filled, healing experience you can imagine.


Is there negative energy? Sure! Have I ever sensed a malignant spirit? Yes, but they’re extremely rare.


It’s easy to protect yourself from those rare spirits that could harm you. They won’t come after you unless you seek them out – and going to a medium with the intent of connecting with someone you love doesn’t fall into that category. If you’re worried about that, just watch your intentions, keep your energy light, and to play it safe, don’t mess around with spells, the occult, or Ouija boards.


The majority of the time, negative energy has nothing to do with ghosts, spirits, or mediumship. My mom always said, “Don’t worry about spirits, it’s the living you have to watch out for.”


Protecting Yourself From Darkness


Even though negative energy can’t hurt you when your own energy is positive, there may be times when you feel yourself weighed down by something that feels dark and heavy. When that happens, one of these might be the culprit:


World Events


There may be events happening in the world that you allow to scare or worry you. When things you can’t control are keeping you up at night, the best way to deal with them is to unplug for a while, take a break from the news and social media, and focus on positive people and things in your life. And if that sounds like you’re putting your head in the sand, you can always do your part to spread light and kindness whenever possible.


Energy Vampires


Or maybe the “attack” is a little closer to home…you may have heard of “energy vampires” – people who drain your life force and make you feel exhausted and overwhelmed. Energy vampires are not ghosts or any other supernatural being. They might be family members, co-workers, or neighbors, and while they are toxic, the good news is that if you’re aware enough to recognize an energy vampire when you see one you can protect yourself.


Dark Places


Even though hauntings are rare, there are some places that hold residual darkness. I share a few examples in my book We Never Die: Secrets of the Afterlife. There were cases when I was called in to remove a restless soul whose energy lingered. They scared a few people, but I was able to “air out” the areas affected and replace the dark with light.


Protecting Your Energy


Whatever the source, there are a few things you can do to give yourself a little extra protection from darkness:


  • Imagine a mirrored wall around you, forming a protective barrier and reflecting negative energy away from you.
  • Get to know your angels and guides and call upon them to protect you.
  • Clear stagnant energy out of any living space that feels uncomfortable to you by burning sage. It really works!
  • Take a few steps to infuse spaces that are new to you with your own energy. I like to personalize hotel rooms by putting a photo of Alexa and our two cats on the nightstand, and by playing some of my favorite disco tunes.
  • When all else fails, open the windows and let the sunshine and fresh air in.


Be The Light!


One thing to remember is that darkness attracts darkness, and light attracts light. The more you focus on the positive, and make yourself a source of kindness and positivity, the less room you have for negative energy of any kind. If you think you can’t generate enough light to drive away evil, think again. It’s like Mahatma Gandhi said, “Even a single lamp dispels the deepest darkness.”


Connecting Through a Psychic Medium 

One of the best ways to learn about heaven and the afterlife is by connecting with a psychic medium. With every reading that I do, I am always amazed at how much the spirit world shares through their messages. During readings they will come through and show me who they are with, what they are doing, and sometimes even give me a glimpse into heaven. This is the reason why I love giving readings. I cannot tell you how many people;e come to me scared and nervous and leave feeling uplifted and comforted knowing that their loved ones are safe & at peace.

If you would like to attend a group reading event either online or in-person, Click Here. You’ll see for yourself the powerful energy we create together when we reach through the veil with our thoughts, and connect with loved ones in Heaven.