The Invisible Psychic String

The Invisible Psychic String

The Psychic Cord That Can’t be Broken


The holidays can be lonely when someone you love isn’t around. You might be separated by miles or in a more permanent way, but whatever the reason you can’t be together physically, it’s comforting to know that you’re always connected energetically.


Coincidence or Spiritual Connection?


It happens to everyone. You randomly think about someone from your past – then within a few hours you get a friend request from them on social media or unexpectedly run into them. Or you have the sudden urge to call a friend at the very moment something significant is happening to them. Once, based on an impulse, I called an old friend I hadn’t talked to in years. When she answered the phone, she told me she was waiting for the coroner to arrive to pick up her mother who had just passed.


Those synchronicities are more than just coincidence. I believe these incidents are proof that we’re energetically connected to certain people with a “psychic string” that time, distance, and even death can’t break.


A Psychic “Hotline” Connects you to Loved Ones


Remember when you were a kid, and you made a “telephone” with two tin cans and a string? I tried that experiment when I was about ten. You couldn’t have a real conversation, but the vibration would travel through the string, and if you were paying attention, you’d know when the person on the other end was trying to reach you. This is the same – you’ll feel a tug – and your subconscious or your intuition gets the message. All you have to do is be open and receptive.


We’re energetically tied to people for all kinds of reasons – the most common connections are to partners or soul mates, children, and immediate family members – but you can also find yourself linked to friends, pets, and even ancestors who you’ve never actually met. We all have multiple cords connecting us to the people who matter most.


There are also cords that aren’t so healthy or positive, and those can actually drain your energy – but that’s a story for another blog.


As a medium, I know that people carry these invisible soul connections with them into the afterlife. If one person goes before the other, this cord will bridge the gap until they’re together again.


What is an Astral Cord?


An Astral Cord is a golden string of energy that connects your heart to the heart of a loved one who has passed away. When you love someone, the connection doesn’t die just because they do. You give off energy with your thoughts and intentions and send it out into the Universe. Your loved one feels that love and sends it back to you, through this golden string.


The astral cord also allows the deceased to send you signs to let you know they are still connected to you. You will notice these signs because you may feel a little tug on your heart when this happens and it’s usually when you need their support, or right before something amazing occurs in your life!


Love is the Most Reliable Network!


Love energy is the most powerful way to create enduring connections in life, and it’s also the best way to stay connected with loves ones in Heaven.


The more love you give off into the Universe and the more you set your intention to receive love, the stronger your connection becomes. The golden string of energy that connects you makes spirit communication easier for both parties involved.


So, when you’re feeling sad because you’re missing a loved one during the holidays, remember that they’re not that far away. Reach out and talk to the people in your life that you care about, and for those on the other side, send out a loving thought – you’ll hear back from them in your dreams at night, or notice signs as you go about your day!


Staying Connected


What people often do not realize is that when you visit a psychic medium like myself, your loved ones come through not because of my gift or ability, they come through because of the connection you had with one another. When they see that they can reach you through someone like myself, they take the opportunity to deliver you a message. This the reason why I love my readings so much! Whether I am doing a group reading or a LIVE event, nobody is ever attending alone. Right with you are the spirits of your loved ones that have passed on. It truly is a family reunion with Heaven! If you would like to attend a psychic medium event with me, Click Here.


The Meaning of Psychic Dreams

The Meaning of Psychic Dreams

Doorway to Other Worlds – Understanding Your Dreams


You open your eyes and sit up in bed, aware that while your body was resting your subconscious mind just had an extraordinary experience.


As you leave your dream state behind you become aware of familiar surroundings – the walls of your bedroom, your phone, and personal items on the table beside you, sunlight streaming through the window. No! You think to yourself. I need just a little more time. But you’re awake and there’s no going back – at least not today.


Have you ever had a dream that felt so real it was hard to believe it didn’t really happen? If the answer is yes, then this blog is for you.


Dreams play an important role. They’ve been known to provide insights into the future as well as help process emotions and get clarity on situations that might be causing you worry or stress. And that’s not all. Dreams can be your best chance at receiving guidance and connection with your spirit guides and loved ones in Heaven.


But how can you get the most out of your dream state? Well, for starters, you have to remember them.


What Did You Dream Last Night?


If you sleep, you dream – most people dream for about two hours every night and might have 4-6 separate dreams. But I’d be surprised if you remembered many of them. In fact, most of your dreams will vanish from your memory as soon as you wake up.


There’s no secret to remembering ALL your dreams (and you probably wouldn’t want to) but these five tips will help you remember more of them.


  • Chill out. Stress interferes with your ability to sleep deeply and causes you to wake up more often throughout the night, which interferes with your ability to remember dreams. To calm down before bed, turn off your electronics, and listen to soft music, meditate, or read.
  • Eat healthy. For a good night’s sleep and sweet, memorable dreams, avoid sugar and heavy meals before bed, and try to eat healthy throughout the day.
  • Avoid caffeine and alcohol before bed.
  • Set your intention before falling asleep. Awareness might be all you need to remember that important dream – and figure out what it meant.
  • Wake up slowly. If your alarm clock jolts you out of bed, you’re sure to forget all about the dream you were in the middle of. If you can, set your alarm so you can wake up slowly, and while you’re still groggy do your best to grab a pen and paper and jot down anything you can remember about your dreams.


What the Heck Was That All About?


Do you ever wake up from a particularly vivid dream and wonder what on earth (or Heaven) your subconscious is trying to tell you? I might have your answer. Let’s spend a minute exploring what dreams mean and how to interpret them properly:


Different kinds of dreams:


  1. Dream Visitations – While you’re in a subconscious state, the veil between the physical world and the spirit world becomes very thin, and your loved ones who have passed can take the opportunity to pay you a visit. You don’t have to be a medium to experience this – all you must be is open and receptive. Dreams like this are usually very emotional, and make you feel like you are visiting Heaven.


  1. Premonitional Dreams – These are dreams that hold signs of things to come – they can tell you what might happen if you choose a certain path. These dreams can be scary, and feel like a warning, but if you pay attention and interpret them correctly, they will provide you with valuable guidance.


  1. Fear Dreams – A lot of people call these “anxiety dreams” and they can feel like everything you fear has come to life. You might dream of the worries and anxieties that you are running away from. This kind of dream isn’t fun but can be a valuable tool to show you what you might be avoiding or pushing away – and give you practice in facing them.


  1. Symbolic Dreams – These dreams normally don’t make sense because their meaning is hidden deep within. These dreams are when messages come from a symbol. For example, a dream of a deer can mean anything from independence to grace. It can also be a personal symbol – maybe there was someone who used to call you “dear?” In dreams like this, there might be common interpretations, but only you can figure out what these symbols say about yourself and your life.


The key to understanding you psychic dreams:


When it comes to dreams, most people find themselves confused when interpreting their meanings, but the combination of setting your intention to dream, remembering the details, and using your intuition to interpret your dreams can help you unlock their secrets.


If you can remember your dreams, write them down in a dream journal. Be as detailed as possible and start looking for patterns. Pay attention to the details.


Where were you in the dream, who was with you and how did you feel about what was happening?


Were you frustrated, scared, or happy?


Was there something you were trying to do but couldn’t?


What was stopping you?


Were there things that seemed out of place?  A rubber duck in the road or a horse in the kitchen?


If there’s a dream that’s recurring, or that seems very significant, jot down everything you can remember about it and think about it throughout the day. It might hold the key to something you’ve been struggling with – or it might be a message from a loved one in Heaven.


The Language of Spirit

There are so many different ways besides dreams that your loved ones in spirit try to get your attention and deliver messages. Learning to communicate with them is a special language. If you would like to learn more about communicating with the spirit world, take a look at my audio classes by Clicking Here. Each class is filled with ways to help you better understand you psychic intuitive gifts and give you insight into the spirit world.







Touching The Spirit World: Beyond the Psychic Veil

Touching The Spirit World: Beyond the Psychic Veil


Are you wishing you could have a conversation, maybe even wrap up some unfinished business with a loved one who has passed over? Have you ever wondered if there’s an optimum time to connect with souls in Heaven? Let’s talk about that!


Recently, I was asked to appear on the TV show Good Day Sacramento. One of the very first questions they asked was what is the Psychic Veil and is it true that the veil is thinner around Halloween?


First, let’s talk about the veil itself. It sounds pretty mystical, but it’s just an invisible separation, like a membrane, between our world and the spirit world. The spirit world exists all around us, but it is not always easy to see or feel. That’s why people often look for ways to open the door so they can feel close to the people they’ve been missing.


Opening the Door to the Spirit Realm


Halloween is over, and the veil IS often thinner during this time, but the reason isn’t the least bit scary, and it has nothing to do with Halloween or hauntings or ghosts.


Holidays or seasons don’t “thin the veil,” we humans control that through our intentions and awareness. The more that we talk about the spirit world and seek out the souls who live there, the closer we bring ourselves to making contact, and the more permeable the veil between the two worlds becomes.


So why do people think the veil is extra thin now? Special times like Thanksgiving, Christmas, birthdays, weddings – anytime you are likely to think of loved ones who have passed – draws souls closer. The holidays are all about love and family and giving, and even though they might not be there in body, they still want to be part of that.


When Loved Ones in Heaven Are Close Enough to Touch


Your loved ones in heaven are always around, but they’re waiting for YOU to invite them to come closer with your thoughts. Every single time you think about your loved ones, you send a signal to them in spirit (kind of like Batman shining his spotlight in the sky). It’s not a one-way street, either. Souls in Heaven want to let you know they are around, and because they are pure energy, they will reach out and communicate with you differently than they did when they were alive. They most often will try to get your attention through SIGNS or visit you in your dreams.

Because spirits are energy, you might actually see your loved one appear in a photo or a video as an orb. Spirit orbs are usually white or yellow and often have an aura around them. This makes them stand out from other types of light orbs that may be present in the picture as well. Although they are unseen with the names eye, they can be seen after a photo has been taken when a loved one in spirit is near.

This is because the orbs are not actually your loved ones, it is just a reflection of their energy that the camera captures when they are nearby.


Simple Ways to Cross The Veil During the Holidays, or Any Day


There are many ways to include loved ones in Heaven in your holiday plans. Here are a few you can try:


  • Talk about them, and share happy, funny, loving memories.


  • Make them part of family gatherings by making their favorite recipe, displaying a photo of them, even setting a place for them at the table.


  • Write them a letter, then release it and keep your eyes, ears, and heart open for a sign from them, letting you know they received your message.


  • Keep a dream journal, and before you go to bed, set your intention to dream about your dearly departed. Then as soon as you wake up, write down everything you remember about your dream encounter.


The holidays are a natural time to feel the presence of spirits, but know that any time you’re thinking about them, they will be there. And the more people who are thinking about them, the more powerful the pull is.

For example, many people tell me that when they attend a live group reading either in person or online, they start to feel those in spirit with them as I start too channel and deliver messages, even if its not their loved one that’s coming through.

The reason being is that when you are present during a reading, and messages are being delivered, you can also feel the presence of that soul. Some people get the chills, some get emotional and others feel a sense of peace knowing they are there. That’s what makes it a group experience.

If you would like to attend a group reading event either online or in-person, Click Here. You’ll see for yourself the powerful energy we create together when we reach through the veil with our thoughts, and connect with loved ones in Heaven.

Losing a Loved One: Learning to Forgive Yourself

Losing a Loved One: Learning to Forgive Yourself

The death of a loved one is never easy, and for many people the pain is intensified by guilt. It’s easy to look back when everything is over and realize you could have done better.  It’s normal to have regrets – you wish you’d spent more time with them when they were alive; you weren’t with them when they passed over; you said something hurtful and never apologized – but remember, no relationship is perfect, and beating yourself up over something that can’t be changed isn’t healthy.


You Can’t Turn Back Time


I recently did a reading for a woman who had lost her brother to suicide. The moment I tuned into her energy I could feel her tremendous pain. She and her brother had a close relationship, and she had been aware of the emotional struggles he was going through and knew of his suicidal thoughts.


She had always done the best she could to support him. She would call him every day to check up on him and ask him how he felt. She constantly reassured him that she was there for him and loved him.


The night before his passing, she called him and right away sensed something was different. She asked him repeatedly if he was okay and he reassured her that he was fine. She kept her phone on that night and had it under her pillow in case he needed her. Unfortunately, the only call that came was to let her know that he had passed away.


Ever since that day she had been weighed down with grief and regret. She replayed the night over and over, imagining different scenarios where she rushed over, broke down the door, and saved him. She was drowning in guilt and emotional pain.


When her brother came through during our reading, his message was filled with love and healing words. He told her he appreciated her always being there for him, and that their relationship had been one of the best things in his life. He assured her that the suicide was not her fault, and that there was nothing she could have done to stop him.


Finally, he told her that he was happy in Heaven, and urged her to forgive herself so that she could heal and be happy too.


Allowing Yourself to Heal


One unfortunate reality of life is that you can’t control everything and everyone. The woman who lost her brother might have stopped him that night, only to lose him to suicide another day. People have free will, their own lessons to learn, and choices that only they can make. When someone passes, you can’t turn back the clock and bring them back for good, but there are ways to replace your grief and regret with loving memories.


Here are some techniques that can help:


1) Start by remembering the good times. Grief is funny. It blocks out all the happy memories and only leaves us with pain. Don’t let the good memories be lost. Think of the person when they were enjoying life, happy and healthy. Remember the experiences you shared, holidays, trips, inside jokes. Train yourself to replace the sad, regretful thoughts with memories that make you smile.


2) Look back on old photos. See the person when they were happy and vibrant. If you can, get a photo album or browse a social media page where there are pictures you haven’t seen before. Images of your loved one during family gatherings, celebrations, and vacations will help you remember them at their best – and keep them alive in your heart.


3) Talk about it. Sometimes people avoid bringing up the name of someone who has passed over. Do your best to break through that barrier and share a happy memory. Encourage other friends or family members to relay their own stories about the departed.  If you’re not ready to talk to family members or mutual friends of the deceased, consider a support group. Talking to others who have been through the same thing might be hard at first, but hearing what they have to say will help you


When I speak to the dead, one thing always comes through. They don’t want their death to hold you back. Guilt can prevent you from moving on with your life. Give yourself permission to be happy again and let go of the guilt and regret you’re holding on to.


If you would like to join me for an online group reading, you can sign up for one here. To make it even more special your family can attend with you and all you need is one ticket. Just make sure they are sitting with you on camera. It doesn’t matter where you live and you don’t need any fancy technology. All you need is a tablet, computer or a smartphone to be able to join.


I believe, the more that you learn about Heaven, the more that you learn that your loved ones are not far away. That’s exactly why I want to share my gift with you ! I hope that by attending an event with me, you’ll feel closer than ever to the people you love. I hope it helps you to open yourself up to sensing and feeling spirit and tuning into their special loving vibration!


I hope to see your face, and the faces of your loved ones in Heaven, on my computer screen during my next online event!

Understanding Empaths & Sensitive Souls

Understanding Empaths & Sensitive Souls

The Proper Care and Feeding Of Empaths


“You’re too sensitive!” When I was young, I heard that phrase a lot from family members, friends, and classmates. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve gained some new insights around what being sensitive means to me.

When you call someone sensitive, it can have different meanings ranging from being touchy, too emotional, or easily offended to being extra tuned in and intuitive.



A Highly Sensitive Antenna


As a psychic medium, my sensitivity has always come from being tuned into the energy of others. The same “antenna” that can easily pick up messages from Heaven tends to be affected by other people’s emotions in a very personal way. In fact, when someone is sensitive in this way, they actually take on the anger, sadness, or joy of others. There’s another word for people like that – they’re called empaths.


Empaths relate to others in a way that goes beyond caring or sympathy. Empathy is defined as the ability to strongly relate to and understand the thoughts and feelings or emotions of someone else. An example of empathy is feeling the same amount of excitement as a friend does when they tell you they’re getting married.


This is great when someone has good news, but being around people who are grieving, in pain, or holding onto a lot of negative emotions can be draining for an empath.


Feeling Other People’s Pain


Empaths sense the emotions of others. Psychic empaths feel other people’s pain without them saying a word and often experience it as their own. Psychic empathy is a type of empathic ability that allows an empath to tap into someone else’s emotional state or energy, usually without even knowing that they’re doing so.


This can be hard on the empath! When a psychic empath takes on the feelings and emotions of others, it can affect them in these ways:


– They typically feel drained after spending time with certain individuals.


– They may exhibit physical symptoms such as headaches or stomachaches.


– They can have lingering anxiety after taking on another person’s fear or sadness.


– They may feel depleted after spending time in large groups or around people who are physically ill.



Shielding your Sensitive Energy


People like being around empaths because they’re understanding and caring. They can have an easier time making friends and getting jobs because they tune into the other person and instinctively know what to say and how to relate to them.


But it’s not all fun and games! To experience more of the benefits and less of the discomfort of their unique nature, empaths must learn to safeguard their energy using psychic protection and shielding techniques.


The best way to shield your energy is by paying attention to people and situations that drain you and trying to avoid spending too much time there. Practice mindfulness to help you protect yourself. You might find that focusing on your breath quiets the mind and centers you in your body.



Energy Vampires


I’ve known people who make me feel uneasy and even physically uncomfortable for no obvious reason. These people might be energy vampires. When it comes to these individuals, I first try to avoid contact, but it’s not always possible or practical. That’s when I deploy my psychic buffer! I imagine myself surrounded by a thick wall of light and picture the negative emotions bouncing off before they can reach me. It sounds crazy, but it works! If I know I’m going to be around energy vampires, I take time to meditate and visualize my protective shield before I see them.


Emotionally Charged Situations


There are situations that are especially tough for empaths. Imagine if you were super-sensitive to being around other people’s fear and pain. If you’re an empath, you don’t have to imagine because you KNOW what this is like. How would you feel at a funeral, a hospital – even an airport or a dentist’s office? Your energy would be cluttered with the feelings of others. You can’t lock yourself inside, but you can be aware of the assault on your energy. Don’t linger in places that make you uncomfortable, and if possible, bring a calm, grounded friend along with you as a buffer. Finally, imagine yourself tuning your “antenna” down, so it’s not picking up every little vibration.


Clearing Out Energetic Debris


When you leave a triggering person or situation and still feel a little weighed down, take a moment to clear out that energetic clutter! Meditate, take a bath or a swim, or turn on some music and dance it out. Different techniques work for different people so try a few things and see what replenishes you.


Getting Used to Life as an Empath


The best way to shield your energy is by paying attention to people and situations that drain you and trying to avoid spending too much time there. Practice mindfulness to help you protect yourself. In any situation, you might find that focusing on your breath quiets the mind and centers you in your body. Spending time outside and connecting to nature is also grounding and helpful.


At the end of the day, there are upsides and downsides to being an empath. But when it comes to being a good friend and compassionate human, empathy can be a superpower. Use the techniques I’ve shared to set boundaries and shield your energy – then enjoy the upside of empathy!





Opening Your Third Eye

Opening Your Third Eye


If you’ve been to a new age bookstore, a yoga class, or a meditation workshop, chances are you’re heard or seen something about chakras. You might have wondered…


What is a Chakra, and Why Are They Important?


The word Chakra means “wheel” and refers to the energy points in your body. You’ve probably heard me say that everything and everyone – living and dead – is made up of energy. Keeping that energy healthy and balanced starts with your chakras, so it’s important that these spinning disks of energy stay open and aligned.


The Chakras control every aspect of your actions, from your psychic abilities to how you digest food. There are seven main chakras that run along your body – from the base of your spine to the top of your head.  Each one is associated with a color, and each serves a specific purpose and is tied to a group of nerves, major organs, and various aspects of your emotional and physical well-being.


A Very Basic List of the 7 Chakras and What They Do:


  • The Root Chakra is at the very base of the spine. It’s associated with the color red, and is related to your physical identity, strength and stability.


  • The Sacral Chakra is a couple of inches below the navel. Depicted as an orange sphere, it is associated with sexuality and creativity.


  • The Solar Plexus Chakra is just above the Sacral Chakra, represented by the color yellow. It’s all about confidence and self-esteem.


  • The Heart Chakra, is an emerald-green chakra located just above the heart. Not surprisingly, it represents love and connection.


  • The Throat Chakra, blue in color, is located in the throat and connected to your ability to communicate verbally.


  • The Third-Eye Chakra. A deep indigo, this chakra is centered right above your eyes and is the source of your intuition and psychic gifts.


  • Crown Chakra. At the very top of your head, you’ll find the violet or white Crown Chakra. Considered the chakra of enlightenment, this chakra keeps you connected to your spirituality and your greater purpose.


Opening the Third Eye Chakra.


You may have heard that everyone has psychic ability or psychic senses. If that’s true (and trust me, it is!) then why isn’t everyone sensitive and tuned in? For starters, to maximize your intuition, it’s important that the third eye chakra stay clear and balanced.


The third eye controls your psychic ability and intuition and can even lead to out-of-body experiences and astral travel. It’s also sometimes referred to as your sixth sense because it’s developed by developing your psychic abilities and intuition.


Since this chakra is physically located on the head, when it’s blocked or unbalanced you can experience headaches, issues with sight or concentration, and hearing problems. People who have trouble listening to reality (who seem to “know it all”) or who are not in touch with their intuition may also have a block. But, when it’s open and in alignment this chakra allows you to follow their intuition and be able to see the big picture.


I can’t see my chakras, so how do I know if they’re balanced?


You can tell when your chakras are “off.” You feel frazzled, flustered, drained, and may even be having health issues. The good news is, like a lot of spiritual ideas, what seems complicated is actually pretty simple to manage. Anything that allows you to be calm, focused, and in-the-moment can positively impact your chakras. So, meditation, yoga, walks in nature, eating well, not drinking and smoking too much, and being aware of your feelings instead of pushing them aside are all critical to a balanced chakra and a healthy life.


Your chakras are attached energetically, and while many people have one that seems to impact them the most, they all matter. However, we’re here to talk about how to enhance your intuition, and to do that, you’ll want to spend some effort specifically targeting and activating your third chakra. You’ll need to meditate on the third eye chakra daily for several weeks or months. Meditation is a key part of developing your psychic ability and being able to align with your body, mind, and spirit.


Opening the Third Eye Chakra


Start by sitting quietly for a few minutes each day. Once you’ve regulated your breathing, begin focusing on the middle of your forehead. Picture a bright indigo blue ball centered above your eyes, rotating in a clockwise direction. That’s your third eye. As you breathe in and out, relax and focus on the area. While you’re in this position, it’s time to imagine your chakra opening up, releasing your psychic ability.


When you get in the habit of focusing on your third eye through meditation, you should notice a deeper level of insights and awareness as you go about your day. To take things one step further, exercise and test your psychic muscles whenever you can. Keep a dream journal and jot down what you remember about your dreams and what you think they mean. You can experiment with automatic writing or making psychic predictions using tarot cards by yourself. Then share what you write or predict with others so they can weigh in!


Everyone Needs Intuition.


Intuition is real, and it serves a very practical purpose. It can help you make better choices and be safer, happier, and more connected to others. With a basic understanding of the chakras, and particularly your Third Eye chakra, it’s easy to tap into this natural gift through meditation or other mindful practices. I hope you’ll give it a try!