10 Ways To Connect With Spirit

10 Ways To Connect With Spirit

It doesn’t matter if you’re the one passing over or the loved one left behind, either way, it’s difficult to let go.

I’ve seen mothers who were gravely ill hang on with everything they had so they could be there for their daughter’s wedding or their son’s college graduation. I’ve known fathers who wouldn’t quit until they had settled their affairs, and made sure their family would be provided for.

You know that death is a part of life and that Heaven is a beautiful place where your loved one will be at peace and pain-free – but it still hurts to think you won’t be able to spend time with them or talk to them on the phone.

There are ways to ease the pain of letting go. A recent experience I had at an event illustrated this.


What is it like to die ?


A young woman came to an event. She looked like the picture of health. Her mother who’d passed a few years earlier came through immediately and told me her daughter was very sick. She’d been watching from Heaven as her daughter received her treatments.

The daughter came up to me after the event and asked me to tell her about death and dying. What she had to say brought tears to my eyes.  She was terrified of dying because she wanted to be there for her two teenage daughters as they reached important milestones – but her doctors were telling her she didn’t have much time left.

I had to help her. We arranged to meet one-on-one a week or so later. I explained what Heaven was like but what she really wanted to know was how to reach out to her daughters after she passed.

I recommended she devise signs she could share with her girls—pennies or rainbows or anything her daughters could look for that would tell them their mother was ok.

Right after we talked, she sat down with her daughters to put together different words, songs, and signs they could watch for after she passed. That way she could send specific messages when they were sad, celebrating, or just missing her. It put her mind at ease to know she now had a way to be there for them as they grew up.


About two years later the mother of two young women in the audience came through.


“I feel I know her,” I said but I couldn’t place her.


“She did a reading with you when she was alive.”


The women told me they’d come that night because they knew that if their mom came through to anyone it would be me. Their mother let me know our plan had worked. The daughters thanked me for encouraging them to set up the signs before she passed.

Doing so had made her passing a just a little less painful, and had given them great comfort over the years.


Staying In Touch With Those Who Pass Away.


Not everyone has the chance to set up signals and signs for loved ones before they pass. Sometimes death comes suddenly, and there’s no time. But there are many ways to feel connected to loved ones in Heaven.

Here are just a few ways to keep the close:


1. If possible, arrange for a sign before they die, just like the girls did in the story I just shared with you.


2. Write a letter to your loved one and “send” it to them. You can burn it, read it aloud to their picture, or if your message is short, write it in the sand at the beach, and let the tide wash it away.


3. Create a personal shrine with a picture of your loved one and something that belonged to them. This doesn’t have to be a “traditional” shrine. Anything that is meaningful to you, set in a place where you will see it often, will keep their memory close.


4. Look out for coins, cardinals, butterflies and dragonflies. These are all classic ways that souls in heaven reach out to the living.


5. Pay attention to songs on the radio – you might hear one that was significant to both of you, like a song you danced to at your wedding, or it might contain a message that resonates with you at that moment. Either way, it’s their way of reaching out to you.


6. Write down your dreams. Dreams are probably the most common way the dead bridge the gap between heaven and earth.


7. Talk about them! Keep their memory alive with others, but don’t focus on their death. Sharing happy memories and funny stories is what attracts them and brings them closer.


8. Visit a place they loved. This doesn’t have to be a big production. Of course, you can travel across the globe (when it’s safe to fly) but you can also go to their favorite restaurant or park.


9. Don’t be afraid to be happy and enjoy your life. Souls in heaven are not jealous or resentful. Their greatest wish is for their loved ones to live their best life.


10. If you’re not sensing the presence of loved ones, be patient. They might be adjusting to the transition. It sometimes takes souls up to a year to come through to a medium, or to send a sign to loved ones.


As a psychic medium I wish that I could loan a pair of my eyes to every single one of you so that you could truly see that your loved one in spirit is right by your side. Of course that can’t happen, but I did the next best thing. I started doing Live Online Group Readings during the pandemic where you and family can join me with other families across the country and be part of an online psychic reading event.


The experience is truly amazing. Its all done by video and so I will be able to see all of you and you will be able to see me LIVE right from your home. What is truly incredible is that during these events as I start to see different families appear on screen, I also start to see their loved ones in spirit standing behind them. So far these Live Online Group Readings have allowed me to meet so many of you that I would have never been able to meet and read before. As of today I can proudly say that I have read over 250 people during these readings alone.


If you are stuck, anxious or missing a loved one, I hope you will join me with your family and take part in this event with me. All you need is a computer, iPhone/smartphone or tablet to attend. Space is limited so if you would like to attend, please Click Here.


In the meantime, keep an eye out for all the amazing signs around you. Even though you may not feel them at times, I promise you your loved ones are closer than you think.



Why Some Souls Don’t Come Through

Why Some Souls Don’t Come Through

When I get ready for any kind of public appearance, I know what’s waiting for me.

  1. Every living person will have someone in mind who they’re hoping I’ll bring through.
  2. Spirits will be gathered, waiting for me to show up and channel their message to someone in the room.

Here’s something you should know. Everyone (living and dead) might not always get exactly what they’re expecting. That’s alright, because the spirits are calling the shots, and there’s always a reason or purpose behind the messages that come through. Let me give you an example…

Recently, I was a guest on the talk show, E! Daily Pop. I walked in and I could see that Carissa, the host, was pregnant. I immediately spotted her deceased grandmother standing behind her, signaling me that she had something to say. She wanted to thank Carissa for being there when she passed and tell her how happy she was that her beloved granddaughter was having a baby girl.

I started to share her grandmother’s message with Carissa, and next thing you know, the cameras turned on and there was the host, crying on live TV. Of course, everyone was happy that Carissa had heard from her grandmother, but they were also anxious for their own loved ones to come through.

The other hosts, Justin and Morgan Stewart really wanted a reading, but there was nothing coming through for them that day. What I did receive was a very powerful message for one of the production girls that sent chills through the room.

That message came through from a family member who had taken his life and wanted to help his family heal.

Watch the segment here:

As a medium I’m the conduit – the messenger – connecting the soul in heaven with the person they want to talk to. But remember, the soul is in control, and they don’t always have messages. For example, your mom won’t come through just to say hello and chit-chat. They will talk when someone is living in pain over their passing, or if their death was unexpected and they left unfinished business behind. Maybe, like in Carissa’s case, they want to acknowledge an important event like the birth of a baby. They don’t talk unless they have something important to say. I wish my own family was a little more like that!

Here’s how psychic messages come through.

Every psychic medium sees things differently, but the way my gift works is that I am aware of souls standing behind or near someone. I will see a shadow or outline of a person and I will hear a message that needs to be brought through to them.

Getting a message from a medium proves to us that those we love are close by. If I ran into you at the supermarket, chances are, I would probably see you father, grandmother, or whoever you lost standing behind you or close by. They never leave us.

What makes me a psychic medium is that I am able to see, hear, speak and feel your loved ones that have died. I’m really good at translating, but the truth is, you can receive messages on your own.

Spirit will come to you when the moment and time is right and when you most need to hear from them.  If there isn’t a medium handy when they need to connect with you, they will appear in a different way — in signs, dreams, or through your feelings and emotions.

Who’s that coming through?

Want to hear something crazy? Even people who may have forgotten about, like old co-workers, neighbors or friends are also there.

That makes my job as a medium so interesting. I never know what soul will come through or who will receive a message. It’s all up to them. For all of you who haven’t received a sign yet, please, don’t give up. When the time is right you too will receive a message.

If you haven’t received a sign or message yet, here are some possible reasons:

  1. The death may be too recent. Your loved one may not have been gone long enough to come through. There have been exceptions, but it sometimes takes a year or more.
  2. Your loved one is a peace and doesn’t have a message at this time. Back to what I was saying earlier. They are definitely watching over you, and will be there if you need them, but they want you to live your life and not be focused on them.
  3. You may not be ready. Spirit only comes through when a message will help you. If for any reason a message will cause you to be more in pain, they will wait.
  1. Like a lot of things in life, trying to push and control spirit can have the opposite effect. Don’t search too hard for a sign. Let the soul come to you.
  2. If there’s a lot of noise in your head, and you’re stressed and distracted, then it will be hard to receive a message from a living person – forget about a dead one!

One more thing.

If you’re around a medium and the person next to you gets a message and you don’t, think about it like this. Now you have proof that the dead can see and talk to us. If you relax and open yourself up to feel their presence and get signs from them, when the time is right, you will.

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Should I Let My Loved One Know They Are Dying?

Should I Let My Loved One Know They Are Dying?

How to tell a loved one they are dying, and if you should.

Losing a loved one is the hardest thing in the entire world. When someone you love is sick, it can make you feel like you are carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders. Sometimes, the emotional connection is so strong, you can actually feel their pain. If you are the caretaker for your loved one, you may be faced with the decision of letting that person know they are dying. It’s one of the most sensitive and emotionally challenging conversations you can ever have, but it is an important one, and here’s why…

Everyone has the right to know .

Sometimes, you have to put yourself into that person’s shoes. Wouldn’t you want to know? When you are truthful with that person and let them know their condition, it gives them time to think and act. When you know your time is limited here in this world, your thoughts begin to change. That person might want to reach out to an old friend or family member, take care of some last-minute business, or share things with you they once were afraid to or apprehensive about. They may even want to repair things with someone they disagreed with in the past. It doesn’t take away time from them; it gives them more.

You don’t have to tell them how long they have left unless they ask.

Letting a loved one know they are passing doesn’t mean you have to give them every detail or you need to lay everything out on the line. Normally, that person will give you cues to show they want to know the truth. They may ask you about their general health and what the doctors are saying, or they might come right out and ask, “Am I dying?” The best thing to do is to offer the information slowly. Let them know things like, “The doctors have done everything they could, but it’s ok. We are going to make the best of it.” You can ask them if they want to know more about the results of their illness, and they will answer truthfully. Be sure to give them a lot of reassurance. Most likely, they already have an idea that things are not good, and many times, they will look to your reaction for comfort.

Be honest but gentle.

It all goes back to that saying, “It’s not what you say; it’s how you say it.” Act normal and positive. Your attitude should say, “This is now in Heaven’s hands and you are going to enjoy the time Heaven has given you.” Dying people have high hopes and strong faith. Most people do not want to tell a loved one they are passing out of fear it will upset them and or make them lose the will to live. What I have found is that people who are passing have strong faith for themselves. Many times, when given the news, they don’t give up but fight harder for more days, hours and seconds. They value the time they spend with their families and want to make the most out of it.

No need to repeat it. Just reassure them.

After breaking the news to the person you love, there is no need to repeat it unless they ask. Sometimes, they will bring it up, but many times, they won’t. You don’t need to remind them of their illness or about passing; just go back to normal life conversations. Allow the last days, months or years to be filled with making new memories that will last. Sometimes, the best days of a person’s life are the last days because they are with those they love around the clock. They see friends and family they haven’t seen in years, and they feel loved and safe with their friends and family being with them.

Ask questions, and set aside special time for that person.

It’s important you help the person who is passing with any unfinished business or goals. Asking questions like, “Is there anything special you would like?” or “Is there anyone special you would like to see ?” is important. You will also notice the person passing will want to spend as much time with you as possible. It’s important that you clear your schedule and give them as much time as possible with you. As hard as it is, you may also have to put your personal feeling aside if your loved one asks to see someone you don’t particularly get along with. Although it might be upsetting for you, they might get the inner peace they need from being able to see or connect with that person.

Let that person enjoy their final journey.

Nobody goes to Heaven kicking and screaming. It can seem scary at first, but what I have been told by those in sprit is that nobody enters Heaven alone. As they are passing, they are greeted by old friends and family members who have also passed on. Death is the final journey and a beautiful part of life; allow it to be an experience for that person. You can help them by holding their hand, playing soft music or lying next to them so they feel your presence. Sometimes, they might ask to be alone when making their transition, or they might wait for you to leave before passing, and that’s okay too. Even if they cannot speak, remember they can hear you. Let them know you love them and that you are ok. It sometimes can help to remind them that a loved one is waiting for them. For example, telling your Dad, “Mom is waiting for you,” can help to remind him of the beauty in death. You can also ask them to send you a specific sign that you choose to let you know they are ok and at peace.

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10 Things You Didn’t Know about the Afterlife

10 Things You Didn’t Know about the Afterlife

If you have ever wondered what your loved one was doing in Heaven or even what Heaven is like, you have come to the right place! As a psychic medium, I have conversations daily with those in spirit and have literally given hundreds of readings. Through my conversations and visions, I have learned some incredible secrets about Heaven and the afterlife. Here are 10 things that might come as quite a shock to you…


  1.  Those in spirit literally can see EVERYTHING you do, but they don’t judge.


Yes, it’s true. Your loved ones in Heaven are with you every day. They can see everything you do, but they aren’t in Heaven saying, “OMG, what a messy house,” or, “My granddaughter is REALLY dating him!?” They respect your privacy and can tune out what they focus in on. Their goal isn’t to judge you; it is to love and support you. They want to help guide you to where you need to be and to the path you need to follow. Most of all, if you are happy, they are happy.


  1. The departed have jobs in Heaven.


There may not be Starbucks or Macy’s in Heaven, but rest assured those in spirit have divine tasks they choose to take on when they make their transition to “the other side.” Do you wonder where those “signs” come from that you see? It could be a family member in spirit or a soul who is protecting you from above.


For example, someone who has passed because of an accidental drug overdose will often watch over those in the physical world who are going through similar situations to help them reach out and find the help they need. Many times, those on the other side will help in hidden ways to get that person help and to keep them from going down the wrong path. They do not want to see that person make the same mistake they did. That person in spirit may choose to appear to the person they are helping in signs, songs or even by randomly meeting a stranger who knows just what to say to help that person make the choice to go to rehab. Coincidences just do not happen.


Those in spirit will help guide that person to make the right choice, but at the end of the day, we all have free will, and it is up to us to pay attention to the signs and to choose the right path.


  1. Even family members you never met or weren’t close with are there watching over you.


Before you are even born, you start your journey on “ the other side.” This is something you don’t remember, obviously, but you met grandparents and great-grandparents even before you were born. It all goes back to the reminder that nobody ever starts or stops their journey here in life alone. Many times while giving readings, I have delivered messages from grandparents who passed long before the client was born, and there have even been times when I have read for clients who were adopted and their biological family came through whom they never knew. At the end of life, we are all reunited in Heaven, and its the biggest family reunion you could ever imagine.


  1. Sometimes couples don’t end up back together.


It’s shocking, I know! Many times I have given readings when the mom decided her 2nd husband was much more suitable for her than the first one who had passed away. It sounds shocking, but those in spirit don’t mind. Things are so much clearer once we leave this plane. It becomes clear that some souls have a stronger and divine love connection than others. The good news is that if you and your first wife decide to call it quits in Heaven, you may have an old ex flame who re-enters your life from years ago. Soul mates do reunite.


  1. The departed go through a life review. It’s like TSA, only in the spirit world.


When you leave this world and transition into Heaven, you go through what those in spirit tell me is a life review. Because Heaven is a place of peace, there is a process of letting go of the baggage. While you make your transition, you leave your physical body behind. You also leave the illness, sadness, resentment, and anger you once carried. Think about it: if everyone brought their problems to Heaven, it wouldn’t be a place of peace; it would be daily drama. That is why their message to us here on Earth is to make peace and enjoy those around us while we have the time to do so. Love deep and laugh often. If it doesn’t make you happy, it is not worth holding onto. Release it to the universe and lighten your load.


  1. Pets do make it to Heaven.


Yes, pets make it Heaven, and it’s called “The Rainbow Bridge!” Yes, it exists! Anything that comes from God goes back to God, and if you lost a pet, rest assured that they are safe and at peace on the other side watching over you. Oftentimes, in my experience, they even come through with relatives and friends who have passed as well.


At my recent group reading in Stamford, Connecticut, I was reading a woman in the audience when all of a sudden, I saw a big fat orange cat in spirit. I asked her, “Did you lose a cat recently?” She said no! Then all of a sudden, I heard a spirit whisper to me and say, “The cat’s name is Pumpkin.” I said, “Are you sure? They are telling me the cat’s name is pumpkin.” The woman was floored. She said, “That’s my friend’s cat that just died! Why is he around me!?” The truth is that soul recognizes soul here in this world, so even your friend’s pets or pets from other family members might be watching over you. The best part of all this is that even childhood pets watch over you.


  1. Those who commit suicide do find peace in Heaven. Many times, they regret it.


I have held the hands of many families who have lost someone tragically to suicide. From what I have been told by those souls who have crossed over, Heaven is a place of peace and forgiveness. I have never spoken to anyone who passed away in this manner who has told me they were in a place besides Heaven. The most frequent message I receive from spirits to pass on to friends and family is, “I am safe and at peace and forever watching over you,” and that they are sorry for the heartache and pain they left their family and friends with here in the physical world.


Many times after a soul crosses over, they realize they didn’t have to end their life. They can see how supportive their family REALLY was and how the depression made them think the opposite. Many times they realize their suicide was not an act of depression but rather a mental illness that was causing them to feel pain. Many times during my group realigns, those who pass in this way will rush to the front to help their family heal by providing a message.


  1. Everyone speaks the same language in Heaven. There is no language barrier.


It seems that no matter how many readings I do, I am always asked the question, “Can you speak to my loved one, even if they did not speak English?” The answer is yes! Spirits have a special way of communicating with me using a unique and special universal language.


Because of this, I have been very blessed to have had the honor of having a world-wide client list. I have connected with clients in India, China and even Iceland! Many of the souls I have spoken to in spirit did not speak the same language as me, but I was still able to connect and give the reading. It is amazing that no matter what language you speak or what religious background or ethnicity you are, one thing remains the same: your loved ones are with you always, looking to connect and speak with you. When you visit a medium, you are actually opening the door to communication between you and “the other side.”


As a medium, those in spirit use different techniques and vibrations to be able to get their point across and hold a conversation with me. Many times, they will even use my entire body to communicate and to pass on messages through me. That is why when you read for someone, it is called “channeling” a loved one in spirit. When I say channel, I don’t mean a television channel. What I am referring to is a divine channel that your loved one uses for me to be able to speak and communicate thoughts, feelings and emotions. It is almost like they put me back in their body to allow me to experience what they experienced here in the physical world.


  1. Heaven looks and feels different for everyone.


Heaven is a place that is entirely created by you. Just like you can design the inside of your house differently but live in a neighborhood with people, it is the same thing in Heaven. Many times, it is a direct reflection of what that person loved here in this world. For example, if you are a mountain climber here in this world, Heaven might be a place of great heights and magnificent views for you. If you loved the ocean, your kind of Heaven may be relaxing in the middle of the water. It’s similar to virtual reality. The one thing that remains consistent is that everyone in Heaven automatically knows one another and can see one another. Oh, and there’s no time there as well.


  1. Those in Heaven never lose their personality. It lives on with them.


“Pull my finger.” If you grew up hearing your grandfather say this again and again, then it is typical they will do the same when you reunite with them in Heaven. I love when those in spirit use their personality to communicate. When they come through with jokes, wisecracks or their little quirks during a reading, family will usually yell out, “OMG, THATS THEM!” It’s true, they stay the same! During one reading, I had a man in spirit stand in front on me and pull his dentures out. When I told the family, they started crying, laughing and wincing in disgust all at once. They said, “He used to do that all the time and chase us around the house with them.” They come through in this way to remind us that death does not make us different. It is just a final gathering place for all those who were sick.


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