Not in my House! The Reason why Ouija Boards will never be allowed in the Fraser House.
I’ve been talking to souls in Heaven for so long that I forget that some people think Mediumship is kind of scary. They even think that by connecting with Spirit, you’re opening up a portal that ghosts and evil spirits can get through. There are all kinds of misconceptions, which is one reason I’m looking forward to my new television show “Meet the Frasers” that’s coming out January 13. I hope to make everyone see that when you respect the Spirit connection, what comes through is love, healing and even humor at times!
But that doesn’t mean I go around looking for trouble. I remember something my Mom Angela taught me when I was younger. She was very stern about using only using your psychic ability for the right reasons. To help others to heal and find answers.
A yard sale treasure?
One Saturday when I was around twelve years old, I was hanging out with some kids from the neighborhood. We noticed a sign for a yard sale nearby and decided to check it out. Nothing looked interesting until we started poking through some old games.
“Monopoly? I bet that’s missing a bunch of pieces.” said one of the guys.
Then suddenly I heard, “Oh my God! Is that a Ouija Board?” My friend Mike grabbed the box and we pooled our money to pay for it.
We didn’t have time to play with the board that day, but we couldn’t wait to try it out. Mike brought it home and we made arrangements to get together that Sunday.
Well, that never happened! Mike’s mom took one look at the battered old box with Ouija Board Printed across the front, and she threw a fit. Being strict catholic and Italian, she made Mike get rid of it right away and wouldn’t even let him put it in their trash can. Instead, she made him bring it back to where we’d gotten it – the house where the yard sale had been – and put it on their front porch.
I was so confused. We knew that the board was supposed to be a way to ask questions and answers, and it did seem kind of exciting and spooky, but we didn’t expect that reaction.
Respect the connection!
At dinner, I brought the whole thing up to my Mom. Well, she didn’t freak out, but she did let me know there would be no Ouija boards allowed in our house either.
As a medium, my Mom knew that talking to souls on the other side wasn’t a game. My grandma who also had the gift, brought my mom up with knowing that if you were going to speak to spirit you had to do it right and respect the process.
I still remember what happened later that night. My Mom sat me down and explained that because we were all so sensitive, we had to be extra careful not to invite in bad energy and negative spirits. She said that when you are intuitive you are more susceptible to them because they know you can hear and see them, and they’ll try to get through to you. She told me that although most spirits meant no harm, messing around with Ouija boards was just asking for trouble. It could open a portal to negative energy and bad spirits.
This was the first time that realized and was made aware that there was a dark side to psychic ability. Being so young I never even thought that there could be mischievous spirits and that on occasion some souls don’t cross over. As I grew older, the souls on the other side explained to me that there were different vibrations in Heaven. The highest vibration is the angelic realm, followed by spirit guides, loved ones that have passed on, pets and then the lowest vibration are rare souls that don’t cross over.
Chances are you will never encounter a negative soul, that is if you don’t go looking for trouble. Just like when here on Earth, you have to lock up your house before you leave, its the same thing with your energy. The same way you wouldn’t invite a stranger who comes knocking on your door into your house, you shouldn’t invite in strange energies. The problem is that when you use a Ouija board you send a signal to all souls, both good and bad and invite them in. It is no longer a secure direct connection with your loved ones it’s a wide open connection where any soul can step forward.
Do you see where the problem comes in? There is no need to use Quija boards, you have a direct connection called your Intuition that will help you connect with your loved ones through thoughts, feelings and emotions whenever and wherever you want. Trust that connection and it will only grow stronger over time. It is safe and beautiful way to stay in touch with those you love.
Psychic Protection rituals.
Over the years, I’ve learned that you can shield yourself from negative forces and spirits by keeping your own energy light and positive. Your light can counteract any darkness out there. But, in addition to that, there are a few things you can do to give yourself a little extra protection.
- Imagine a mirrored wall around you, forming a wall and reflecting negative energy away from you.
- Get to know your angels and guides, and call upon them to protect you.
- Clear stagnant energy out of any living space that feels uncomfortable to you by burning sage. It really works!
- Take a few steps to infuse spaces that are new to you with your own energy. I like to personalize hotel rooms by putting a photo of Alexa and our two cats on the nightstand, and by playing some of my favorite disco tunes.
- When all else fails, open the windows and let the sunshine and fresh air in.
And guess what? These techniques also help with earthly encounters of the negative kind!
I can’t wait to show you what mediumship is all about when Meet the Frasers airs. Be sure to mark your calendar for Jan 13. I think you’ll enjoy seeing my whole family in action – supporting me onstage and off – and always bringing through that loving energy!
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Understanding Negative Spirits, Souls & Energy.
Sometimes people ask me if all connections to Spirit are positive. “What about bad people who hurt me while they were alive? Can they hurt me after they’re gone?”
A friend of mine bought a beautiful old mansion in Newport to use for entertaining. Her family didn’t spend much time there, but when they did, they were uncomfortable. My friend asked me to come to the house with her because after she had some odd experiences. She thought the house was haunted. When I got there, I could sense a great sadness associated with that house. I felt emptiness, coldness and stagnant energy. The moment I walked in I felt that I was not welcome.
Even though the house was beautiful, it felt cold, sterile and airy – like a hospital. I told her it was really just an energy imprint, not a haunting. While I was there, I was shown that the original owners of the house had experienced tragedy. Their energy was still in the house. As I told my friend, it wasn’t a haunting. The house needed my friend’s energy.
An Energy Imprint is also referred to as an “energy haunting”. When a tragic, violent or emotional event happens in a house or a certain area, that energy can be left behind leaving an imprint. Even though there may not be any actual “ghosts” there anymore, you may still feel uneasy, sad or scared in the area. This is why so many people feel these sensations when visiting haunted placed like the Lizzy Borden house or the Winchester Mystery House.
I told my friend to infuse the house with her family’s happy, loving presence. The house needed to be recharged with positive energy, with day to day events, meals, sunshine and fresh air. She started going to the house during the day to work. She even took her pets to the house, so they could run and play in its rooms. Over time, her family’s positive energy replaced the old stagnant energy. Some of that old spirit was still in the house, but when the new lifeforce was allowed to come through, it edged that old energy out.
Since we are all energy, things we interact with keep traces of our energy. That energy can stick around after we’re gone, but it’s not really the same as what people think of as “haunting.” Hauntings are rare and usually indicate a problem with a soul crossing over. Mediums can assist in replacing old energy, like I did with my friend, but transitioning the living over to Heaven is God’s work.
Souls have to be light to cross over. When you die, you let go of old pain, trauma and resentment. On the other side, we have to forgive and be forgiven and let things go. Sometimes, souls are too heavy to cross over, usually because of some darkness in their lives, and they become stuck. That’s what we think of as hauntings.
Those heavy spirits that get stuck here can’t hurt you when your own energy is positive. As my mom said, the only people you have to fear are the living! Still, there are some things you can do to get yourself some extra protection….and these techniques help with those earthly encounters too!
Psychic Protection Rituals
- Imagine a mirrored wall surrounding you, forming a wall and reflecting negative energy away from you.
- Get to know your angels and guides, and call upon them to protect you.
- Burn sage to clear stagnant energy out of any living space that feels uncomfortable to you. It really works!
- Take a few steps to infuse new spaces with your own energy. For example, I like to personalize hotel rooms by putting a photo of Alexa and our cats on the nightstand. I also play some of my favorite disco tunes!
- When all else fails open the windows and let in the sunshine and fresh air.
Some people think being a psychic medium might be scary or a morbid way to make a living, I don’t see it that way at all. On the contrary, I feel blessed to be able to spread light and help the living heal by letting them know that their loved ones in Heaven are still with them and wishing them the best!
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The question has come up many times when people have asked me, “Is there a dark side of psychic ability?”
The answer sadly is yes. It’s not something that I like to talk about, but just like there are negative people, there are also negative souls who roam here on Earth. The good news is these souls are very rare and often not ones I come in contact with. Chances are, you will never run into a negative being or soul. They do not attach to people like in horror movies, and they mainly only bother people who go looking for them. I have been to some of the most haunted places and nobody has ever pushed me down the stairs or pulled my hair. Most of our ideas of them are made up by Hollywood, but there are some cases that are real.
When I was a child and first coming into my psychic gift, I ran into some mischievous energies, and it frightened me. When you are psychic, you are like a beacon of light the spirit world sees. Souls both good and bad will try to reach you because they know you can speak and communicate with them. When I was younger, I was terrified. I would hide under the covers and call for Mom to try to escape the voices that were around me. Sometimes, I even woke up while sleeping only to find that I couldn’t move or talk. I learned later it was something called sleep paralysis. I noticed this happened when I started coming into my gift and learning about my spiritual calling, and it only went away when I prayed. I later realized it was negative spirits trying to scare me away from doing the light work of delivering healing messages.
My mom was the first one to teach me to do everything in prayer. “Set boundaries, keep yourself protected and always work in the light and for the great gift of God.”To this day, it remains the same. What you don’t know about me is that before every event, I walk the room and say a prayer of protection and I make sure that I set boundaries and only speak to the souls who are from a higher power.
I learned when I was young that negative souls cannot hurt you or cause a disruption in your life unless you allow them in. That’s why I have never picked up a Ouija board or any other similar device. The best advice I can offer you is for you to do the same. If you go searching or tapping into something you shouldn’t, you will find something you shouldn’t. For that same reason, I am not a fan of ghost hunting or paranormal activity. I feel that’s something, we just need to leave those things in Heaven’s hands. What we cannot control, God does.
If you have had a similar experience or maybe feel the presence of a negative soul, ask Archangel Michael for support and let that soul know they are not welcome in your life. Below is a special prayer of protection I would like to share with you. I hope you will keep it safe and use it if you need it.
Dear God, Holy Spirit and Archangel Michael,
Please bring peace and light into my home and protect my family, friends, loved ones and most of all myself from all evil or negative energies.
Please keep us protected and take away all worrisome thoughts. Only allow the souls who are here for our highest and best good.
We thank you for the healing that has already been given and for your ultimate and divine protection.
You may feel a particular spirit in your house that doesn’t belong. It may not be evil or negative, but it is a lost, lingering soul. This is normal. Sometimes, souls can still stay connected to a place they loved, and if it happens to be a house you just purchased, you may feel their presence and need to send them on their way.
When dealing with negative souls, lost souls or any souls who don’t belong, it helps to open the windows, let in fresh sunlight and air and play music and invite people over for dinner. Negative energy can only thrive if you let it and give it power. It cannot stay where there is happiness, love and light. When you create an uplifting energy space in your house, that energy has no where to go but to leave. Opening the window also sets the intention that the soul or energy is no longer welcome in your home or in your life. This process will only push out the souls who don’t belong. It will not push away your friends, family or loved ones who come and visit you. They are on the permanent guest list and are connected to your heart, not to a place or object.
At the end of the day, it all comes down to the following: Do all things with love and light and you will be fine. Keep yourself protected through prayer and speak to your angels and loved ones in spirit when you need help or assistance.
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