Your Biggest Questions About Life, Death, and the Afterlife Answered
Everywhere I go, people ask me the same things: What happens when we die? Can my loved ones still hear me? Do angels really exist? These aren’t just casual curiosities; they’re the questions that live deep in our hearts. After years of connecting with the spirit world, I’ve learned that the answers bring comfort, clarity, and hope.
Do our loved ones really visit us in dreams?
Yes! Dreams are one of the easiest ways for loved ones to reach you. When your mind is quiet, their energy slips in to let you know they’re near. If you haven’t had one yet, don’t worry; grief can sometimes block the connection until you’re ready. Most often, these dreams come during milestones like weddings, births, or big life changes, reminding you that you’re never alone.
Can mediums read minds?
This is one of the biggest myths I hear. Mediums don’t read minds. What actually happens is that your loved ones tune into your thoughts and share them with me. So when I answer the exact question you were silently thinking, it’s not mind-reading, it’s your loved one showing you they hear you loud and clear.
Do angels really exist?
Absolutely. Angels are heaven’s guardians, stepping in during moments of fear or tragedy. They surround you with protection and guide you through challenges. Children, especially, are sensitive to their presence; that’s why so many little ones talk about “imaginary friends” who feel surprisingly real.
Are Loved Ones Who Died Before You Were Born Around You?
Another question I hear often: “What about family who passed before I was born, are they with me?” The answer is a resounding yes. Family is family, whether you knew them in the physical world or not. Souls in heaven don’t pick and choose. If there’s a connection, they’re with you. Many times, these same souls were with you before you were even born, guiding your spirit into this life.
What Advice Do They Have About Grief?
Perhaps the most touching question of all is, “What advice do my loved ones have for dealing with their passing?” Every single time, the message is the same: they want you to live. They want you to find peace knowing they are safe and whole in heaven. They don’t want you chained to grief or guilt. Instead, they want you to carry forward with love and joy, honoring them by living fully.
The Ultimate Truth About Life, Death, and the Afterlife
What I’ve learned is that the afterlife isn’t distant or unreachable; it’s right beside us. The questions you carry in your heart are often the very things your loved ones are eager to answer. They remind us that family bonds never end, that they’re closer than we realize, and that love is the one thing that continues forever.
With peace from the other side,
Matt




Responses
Thank you…Matt!
I recently lost my son Matt. He was with me since birth and he was my best friend. He was almost 53 when he passed and I was grateful to have been there. He was cremated yesterday. I talk to him all the time and I hope illbe worth him again when ota my turn to pass. Thank you Matr
Hope we can ask questions about those who have passed.
Thank you so much. This eases the pain of losing my loved ones. Although it has not gotten easier it has gotten bearable. I lost my son and my soul mate, parents, siblings and so many that I loved.
L lost my son, my only child Tao, to murder on August 24, 2018.. His wife has the motive and evident price that she and her accomplices are behind his sudden death. My son appeared in my dream a few weeks after his death. He looked young and good than he was before his passing. I have been talking to him almost everyday. I lit a candle and told him that “mom loves you forever, and missing you always.” I hope he is doing well in the other side, having peace , doing things he likes to do. Matt, I hope you can connect with my son, and let me know how he is doing. I am willing to pay you for whatever it is needed. Thanks you so much.
Thank you – I see signs white feathers and I have dreams I believe they are still around us
Thank you, Matt, for always bringing me comfort with your words!
What if you believe in a higher power and we go on to see loved ones or an energy team connected to us to help us and guide us but don’t fully understand if it’s God and heaven the universe, Aliens etc,.but we do still feel in our heart we go on and reunite together in a better place with loved ones and our creator. With that unknowing block my partner from coming through are block me from dreaming of him or having any dreams
My grandson died at 23. I talk to him everyday. I feel he watches over me. If he decides to come back into another life where his soul follows him, if I pass, since he is living a new life, will his soul/ spirit be there to greet me or won’t because he came back?
Thank you for this Matt it’s given me some comfort.
I lost my soulmate married for 44 years and still broken.
Hopefully I can think of your words and carry on. I live in England in Cornwall and I wish I could just ask you one question.
I know that’s not possible thank you so much
DEREEN Carnegie
Hi mat it’s been one year since I lost my youngest son he committed suicide i want to know why he did it,he hurt me so bad am still grieving daily and did Jesus lead him home by the hand and I pray daily that he didn’t suffer no pain..I miss him so bad and still can’t dream of him..he’s fe. 40..passed 10/19/24…
Thank you. This came at a good time. I’m still having a difficult time with the death of my Wife.It has been by far the worst event in my life.
Hi Matt, my brother passed 4 months ago and this was a very beautiful read. We are 17 months apart and we’re always so close. I still feel him around me just as much as he was in the real world. I wish this wasn’t my new reality but I am grateful for all your posts and videos to help me as I process this grief. Thank you
You are such a comfort Matt as I miss my husbandeveryday
Beautiful, I was so skeptical about what the afterlife be like. I’m a Filipina American who practice paganism. I was wondering if the spirits I’m working with heard my invocations or when I pay my respects to them.
I read so many nde,s about people who go to hell and it really worries me where we go?
The best thing about life is the end the crossover a lot of poor souls have terrible hard life’s anyway the end of grief and pure relief. Astral road take me home to the place I belong 🎼🎼🎼🎼
Thank you Matt. I had questions about the very topic that you mentioned. I’m having surgery in December and I wish my twin sister could calm me down. I am truly afraid. I lost her in 2015. I miss her so much.
Dear Matt.,
Your gift is so much appreciated by those of us who watch/listen to you…
I jus lost my beloved Mom who was also my best friend six months ago. Your Question/Answer brought me some inner peace for I miss my Mom soooo much.
Hoping to see you soon with the hope that she will come through.
Thank you and many blessings to you and your family.
Gizela
Hi Matt I want to know if I can get a reading from u on my husband he died suddenly in an accident. I need to get closer I need to know what happened to him when he died in an accident. Please help me get through this. I am having a hard time either the way he died.thank you
I lost my son, Zach (f27) 10 years ago 10/12/15. I’m still having a very hard time processing my grief but reading this gave me some comfort.
Hello, I feel my high school/college boyfriend was my true love. I broke up with him but regret it now that he is dead. It’s been 26 years since his death but I never got to say goodbye. Do we get to reunite with our loved ones when we die? What about if they had a different girlfriend when they died? He was still in love w me when we broke up. It wasn’t a healthy relationship but the only one I felt truly loved
Thank you Matt for your love and support through you giving us the answers we all need. I have been able to put trust in you and believe that my love is still with me. I have been through 3 different readings but my people on the other side have not had anything to say to me yet, I am going to sign up for another online reading. 4 th time I hope is the charm
Hi Matt. I found you, I follow you, I attended one of your on line sessions. I think you are incredibly remarkable and I hope one day we can reach my son together. I lost him tragically almost 5 months ago and still in an enormous amount of grief. Grief sucks! Anyway, until then I will continue to listen, learn and love your precious words to us all. Thank you Matt. God Bless you and your beautiful family.
‘They want you to find peace knowing they are safe and whole in heaven. They don’t want you chained to grief or guilt. Instead, they want you to carry forward with love and joy, honoring them by living fully’. This really resonated with me. I lost my mum a month ago and miss her so much. She had 2 surgeries and lost her voice at the end but was trying to tell me something on three different occassions and I have been aching to find out what she was saying. Weird things have happened since, mainly electrical things going crazy – either stop working or then start working. I hope she is completely healed and with her loved ones.
I lost my son in a tragic accident June 21, 2025. We were very close I miss him more than ever. I still can’t believe he is gone, the grief is unbearable. I just want him home with me. Some days I am numb and in denial. This is the worst pain for any parent . I talk to him from morning till night. I can’t wait to see him again Thanks Matt
When someone dies in the house do their spirit stays in the house
I just had a dream last night (which isn’t unusual) of my cousin Mike, my friend Kathy and my Mom (who have all passed). Three separate dreams in one night.
Hi Matt, my grandmother just passed Monday at 103 years of age. She was an amazing lady and I loved listening to her stories of “back in the day”. She certainly has seen and gone through a lot in her time and she will be missed dearly. My sister and I were very close to her. My dad, her son, passed in 2017 so I know they are together again because she really missed him. Would she come through to talk to me or should I wait a little bit? Someone had said they need time to adjust to their new way of life before they will talk through a medium. Is that true? Thank you. You are amazing and a blessing and I am hoping she will come through for me some day.
What about a beloved pet that passes?
I want to know how religion fits into all of this. I am a Christian and believe in Jesus.
I’ve been going through a rough 5 years and not once have I felt or noticed that angel’s or loved ones a watching over me.
Hi, Matt thank you so much for you comfort words i lost my dad 3 years ago and after i lost my dog 7 months after my dad. I lost my mom it will be 2 years in January i am still in pain and i am going through a depression and i get anxiety attacks. Because i saw both my parents and dog die in front of me but whenever i read your books or you send me emails. I feel comfort again thank you so much i would love a reading with you one day God bless you and your beautiful family.
God bless
Jacqueline
Hi, Sorry i wanted to say that i get visitation dreams of my mom and dad every night night.
Matt I love listening to you, your words are so meaningful. I lost the love of my life 13 months ago and can’t get past this grief. I am so lost without him. I joined 6 of your online readings but he didn’t come through. Do you have any advice for me?
I love your beautiful knowledge of the spirits who have crossed over and that you can hear them, speak with them and deliver their messages to their loved ones. You say the connection is family bond. And they are closer than we realize, like for me, I can see them as a blue light across my living room, but what about someone that is not blood related like a soulmate? If a person is lucky enough to live with their soulmate and not marry them or have children together, but have a relationship on earth, and one departs from this planet, does this person stay connected with you like a blood relative?
I lost my hubby 2 and a half years ago. And when I am having a bad day and I just need him something always happens that reminds me of him. Like the day after he died I finally got some alone time and was driving home when I started crying and telling him how much I need him and then on the radio it plays are song a song that we have never heard on the radio , and I just knew it was my hubby saying I am here then right after that a song another o e came on that was special to us both because of the story of why it’s special and I started laughing while crying and remember the day that song brought smiles all day to both of us.
But lately, in the past couple months I just do t feel him around me anymore and when I beg him to let me know he here I get nothing where in the past when I would ask him to let me know he there something always happened that I knew he was still there. Why can’t I feel him anymore? I really need him now.
I truly hope you are able to talk with myself, and my mother as well as my gf at tomorrow’s event. I will be there thru zoom to participate in you and your moms readings! It would truly give me my life back. Thank you.
Matt,
I lost the love of my life in July. I really want to hear him speak to me and to see him. I miss him terribly. How can I make that happen?
I hope to connect with him on Halloween at your readings. We’ll see
Thank you Matt for everything you share with us. About 3 years ago I lost a very dear friend very suddenly. There was such a deep connection between us that I always felt we had been friends or family in another life. We told everything to each other and there was never any judgment. Some things I never even told my husband. I have thought of her every single day since her passing. Sometimes when I wake up in the morning I have a very faint feeling that I dreamt about her but I can’t never remember details. I can’t wait to see her again when my time comes.
My mum passesd away in 2023 and I’ve had two online readings but she didn’t come through, ever since she died I’ve felt a disconnect from her as we were inseparable and now I just feel empty and hollow inside, I miss her more than words can say and I just want to have her come through for me to say anything at all to ease my pain.
Hi Matt, thank you for the update on your tours coming up. I have been wanting to join for a few years now. I lost my Dad and Grandmother shortly after my Dad. I miss them both so very much. I see the same numbers or hear my Dads favorite music randomly on devices daily. I talk to them both all the time. Especially now that I have been going through some things. I wish I could just see his smile one more time or feel my Grandmothers warm hugs..
looking forward to seeing you. I watch all of your shows. Thank you for what you do on healing hearts daily. I think it’s amazing and I really hope I get a message when I get to join a session.
Thank you again. Much love and blessings to you and your beautiful family…. Roxane Jo Gonzalez
Dear Matt,
Thank you for saying all that, Needed to hear it right now
Take care
Live Deb
Matt the strangers vision happen to me this morning at 5pm through my eyes I saw a vision of the back of a old person with grey hair and then my husband came into sight with old age and wearing his cap but not smiling.This did not last long. I am not sure what to make of it as I know what I saw. Kind regards Janet
Matt if you can give me some idea what happened thank you Janet
Thank you. Im still bewildered about where my daughter is. We were so close, Im absolutely devastated. I want to believe that her soul is out there and we will be together again.
Hi Matt When you pass over do you come back again as a different person? I meet people who seem to be like someone who has passed.
You always bring such a peace and reassurance to me when I read your messages. I need to sign up for a reading from you soon. Thank you for sharing these things with us. It does bring so much comfort to know.
Hi Matt,
You break all of this down so well! Thank you. I lost my Mom over 27 yrs ago. There’s not a day goes by that she is on my mind!
❤️🫶🏼❤️
I lost my mother. Her name is Mary Lou cade She died August 10th 22 and she was born June 26, 1953 and I miss her so much. I couldn’t make it to her by. My siblings has sent me a video of her calling my name 4 times I love my mother so much. And I just wanna know what is it like? Like, what is it that she is trying to tell me like cause she never calls my name like that at all my right ear keep ringing every single day. And everything will night even when I loosely. I don’t be dreaming. Anything is nothing but blank like nothing but darkness. I just really wanna know what is it that my mother wants to tell me.
Cause she never, ever. Call my name like that.
My husband of 65 years died on September 8th and I am lost without him. I met him when I was 16 and he was 20. I’ve also lost all 3 of our children. I’m ready to join all of them
Very consoling My beloved husband of 40 years passed away last year I feel his presence with me and he answers my questions
Matt, I absolutely love everything about this blog.
I need to keep reading this blog. I believe it will really help with my grief. It just hurts so much this side of Heaven……
Oh, Matt, your message about living fully after losing someone is pure gold, obviously delivered by a guy who knows how to keep his own light on! Its almost comforting, like being told not to cry over spilled milk, but with more ethereal fluff. The idea that spirits are just chilling nearby, answering questions, is adorable until you realize it might just be the universes way of saying, Dont worry, were all still here, even if you cant see us! Especially amusing is Dianas question about soulmates vs. blood relatives – guess spirits dont do exes? Very exclusive club, that afterlife. Anyway, thanks for the comforting reassurance, even if Im still pretty sure my departed goldfish is just floating in a slightly larger bowl over there. Keep those readings coming!
Matt, I have lost my son, a brother ,three sisters. My friend and two nephews 2020-2022 I’m lost inside.
Before my mom passed, she told me she wanted me to live. She told me that I would have to accept the fact that someday she wouldn’t be here. It’s been 3 1/2 years and yes, I’ve accepted it, but I grieve every single day. There’s no life in me to live. Grieving my mom is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through.
You often mention God in the after life. What about Jesus and the Holy Ghost? Do spirits mention them?
My husband passed in March of this year . I have joined your group readings , but I am not being selected . I need some clarification and I miss him so much . He was a retired Marine and a good one . A great husband and father . I’m wanting to hear from him through you .
Our son passed unexpectedly a few months ago. Still processing it all.😔 Wasn’t emotionally prepared.
If you state that our angels are always with us – how can they be everywhere with everyone? Thank you for some of the answers to our questions. 🕊️🦅🙏. Comforting.
My son passed away 13 years ago and I have never received a sign from him. I keep hoping I will but it never happens is there a reason why?
Love this intro to Matt Fraser. Matt…you are a kind, loving young man. I’m sure you’ve made your mother proud! My youngest daughter passed a little over seven years ago. I feel her with me. Sometimes I hear her, and feel her hug me. I wouldn’t call myself a psychic, but I do “know” things, and “feel” things. My grandmother had a bit of the shine, and my daughter had dreams. Thank you for what you do! ❤️❤️
Do we all go to heaven when we die
I lost my dad at the age of 2, I think of him daily and miss him! I just need a reading done and I really wanna connect with my dad, and have a daughter who’s mean the world to me, my whole family separated after dad passed my mom was so broken she lost her self until this day she won’t talk about him I keep asking! Can you plz help me connect with him 🙏💕
I’m alone here. Am successor trustee for two friends. My entire family is in Heaven. Would love a connection to any of them!🩷
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