The Key To Living Your Best Life
When a person transitions to Heaven and goes through their life review, a lot changes. Often when I’m giving a reading, the person receiving the message is shocked by the positive transformation of their loved one.
A father who never showed emotion in life might communicate a warm, loving message. A mother who was petty and held onto grudges will suddenly come across as generous and forgiving. Someone who was always extra cautious and fearful might send a message encouraging a friend to take a chance and pursue their dreams.
These out-of-character messages shouldn’t be a surprise! Souls leave more than their physical bodies behind when they cross over. To pass through Heaven’s gates, they must shed what I call the “heavy” emotions like anger, jealousy, resentment, insecurity, and fear. Once they’re free of those limiting feelings and beliefs, they can go through their life review and see their experiences on earth in a whole new light. This newfound ability to understand the “big picture” more easily allows them to open up, forgive, and release the painful events and traumas they suffered in life.
Embracing a Heavenly Perspective to Heal Your Life
A change in perspective can put everything in a new light, and you don’t have to wait until you die to get rid of what’s holding you back. Imagine if during his life review, a man is finally able to realize how he contributed to the failure of his marriage. As a pure Soul that has let go of defensiveness, anger, and jealousy, he is able to gain a full understanding of the situation, take accountability, and finally heal from the pain that he carried on Earth.
Now imagine you’re going through a terrible divorce yourself, and you feel betrayed, angry, and scared. Those emotions go deep, and if you don’t take steps to heal, they can cast a shadow on the rest of your life. You might find yourself refusing to put yourself out there to meet new people, or if you do connect with someone, putting up walls and sabotaging your relationship before it even gets started.
The earlier you take steps to release the burden of trauma and pain, the more free you will be to experience success, happiness, and fulfilling relationships. These five simple steps will help you process those emotions and heal from whatever is weighing you down.
Feel your feelings. Whether it’s the deep seated trauma you’ve been pushing down since childhood, or a more recent loss that’s just too hard to face, pushing down your pain keeps you stuck. Try breaking the habit of denial and actually sit with your feelings. Allow yourself to grieve for what you experienced. Give yourself permission to be hurt or sad. Cry, talk to a friend or counselor, or journal about your feelings – whatever you have to do to let them out! By letting those blocked emotions flow, you create space for understanding and processing, and gradually loosen the grip of unresolved pain so you can move on.
Question your narrative. I’ve met so many people who felt rejected and unlovable because of the way their parents treated them – only to have a mother or father come through in a reading to apologize and explain why they themselves had been incapable of expressing love. Challenging the story you’ve been telling yourself for years can be a game changer, allowing you to gain new perspectives, untangle misconceptions, and ultimately reshape your understanding of your own history, opening doors to healing and growth.
Allow yourself to forgive and let go. Forgiveness is the most powerful healing tool I know. Remember, forgiving someone who did something to hurt you isn’t really about them. It doesn’t condone their wrongdoings but it does release you from the heavy weight of resentment. Granting forgiveness can open the door to compassion and healing and pave the way for emotional freedom.
Take a leap of faith. If the trauma you’re holding onto has roots in a specific event, don’t let that incident keep you from living life to the fullest. For example, maybe you nearly drowned as a child and were left with a terrible fear of water. If you avoid the water forever, you’ll never conquer your fear. Take small steps – on your own, or with help from a counselor or friend – to gradually address your feelings and prove to yourself that it’s safe to try again.
Finally – last but not least – ask Spirit for help. Friends, counselors, spiritual advisors, and self exploration are all helpful when you’re trying to heal at a soul level. But remember, you also have a Spirit team to help you. Asking your angels, guides, and loved ones in Heaven for guidance and support can be invaluable as you go through the process. Call upon them, pray to them, write them letters in your journal – then look for the signs they send in return. They’re right there, waiting to serve you and help you on your journey of soul healing!
As a psychic medium, I connect with Souls every single day who carry regrets for the pain they held onto in life. They want nothing more than to help the living avoid making the same mistake. Listen to their advice! By taking steps to heal your soul you can change your perspective, and improve your life.
Connect with a Psychic Medium
If you’re looking to connect with a loved one through a psychic medium, trust your gut, read the energy and follow your intuition to find the perfect match. It always brings me joy when people come to see me and share that they felt a divine calling to reach out. I truly believe that their departed loved ones have guided them to me in a special way.
If you’d like to connect with me for a reading, why not join me at an online reading event or catch me live on tour? When you attend an event either online or in person, it gives your loved one the opportunity to reach you with a message. You may be surprised to know who is with you and watching over you in spirit.
Responses
Thank you for this lovely lesson. I’ve been struggling. I keep praying, meditating and calling on my angels with great appreciation.
I keep seeing 222. I’m asking for all that negativity to go away.
I feel lost on who to trust.
Cathy DePasquale 31/8/23
Thanks for that Matt , much needed . I quit my job this week , I have worked at it for 24 years . I feel like a weigh has been lifted from my shoulders . Not sad , and I don’t feel bad I feel free . I have to find a new job , but I’m not even stressed out over it . Needed your message .
Loved it, it opened my eyes and my heart
Thank you Matt, you are a channel for love and healing. One question: I lost my temper with my wonderful Mom the night before she crossed over. Ten years later, I cannot make sense of how awful I was. Likewise I dropped the ball twice with my Grandma. Although I know the angels and God love me, I made such horrible mistakes. How do we make true amends a with our loved ones on the other side? How do we find atonement, absolution and redemption? Why are we jerks to those we love the most? Love from Boston, Joy
Golly,I feel the same way you do. I have so many regrets for all the bad things I did to my mom. I just can’t let go of the pain I know I caused her. I don’t even want Matt to talk to my mom and find out all the awful things I did.
Hi Matt, thanks for sharing all your knowledge.
On Aug.28, I was moving back to Hinton and my mover and I were moving my couch and it got wedged in the door frame. We tried serveral times to move it but it wouldn’t budge. I looked up and asked my late husband to help me. The moment I asked for his help, the couch it suddenly moved and somehow unwedged its self and it went out of the door without a hitch.
My mover said, I don’t know how that happened. O said me either but I knew it was him.
My husband died with covid at same time I was in hospital with covid he had his funeral but sadly I was not able to go I am finding it difficult as I have not got aclosure this is 3years and it feels like yesterday can’t seem to move on can you help please
Try not to beat yourself up for NOT being able to be at his funeral… I’m sure he’s AWARE of the situation you& everyone was in during COVID-19& talk to him all home for signs then open your heart mind& soul-you’ll be surprised at the messages you’ll receive showing that he’s with you surrounding you in love. I lost my 25yro daughter last Sept 23rd, she was app the way out in Texas-i live in Virginia Beach Va and had to cancel the service I had planned for her here in VB -i WANT to re-plan it for this Sept 23rd as it’s the 1 year mark-however I have isolated myself for the past year and I’m struggling to get anything done and feel like such a failure as a mother to her and my 16yro daughter that lives with me!!-I’m so very sorry for loss -sending prayers and healing vibes!-your more than welcome to contact me anytime-I’m in a ton of grieving& loss groups on FB bcuz lost her for to fentanyl poisoning-trace amount in her weed. Anyways, peace love and light!
I know when i leave this world .i have learnt how to be to people .just love them ..no matter if they don’t care for me ..i learnt how not to be with negative people ..i have asked god could i look after the children who need extra cuddles .i love children and want do something that im passionate in xx
I first heard about Matt on Facebook it popped up then it popped up again on tick tock I was curious so I looked into it read about it and only day that was open was August 26th I tried to put my credit card through but it would not go so I thought maybe I wasn’t supposed to go then it showed up again then I realized this was the last day my best friend was alive before she got murdered so I thought maybe she had a message for me I went to his show but I never got called on my friend told me to try it one more time so I’m going again in October see what happens
I just left the comment but it keeps on popping up that I need to leave another one I wanted to find out when I will meet my next husband and where I am on disability but I have a calling to do more but I don’t know what it is or is it simply just the fall in love again and enjoy life I don’t know I’m getting older now maybe that’s what it is
I lost my husband 4 1/2 years ago.When he passed we had words the last thing I did was hang up on him with good reason. I can’t seem to move on I need some kind of closure. It’s driving me crazy.
This is so helpful. I’d love to send this to my former husband who has a lot of anger, pain insecurities and is emotionally unavailable. He’s 75yrs old. Could I send this to him without asking?
In my teens I was crazy about a tv star back in the late 60’s as I got older I didn’t think much about him , I am now in my 60’s a mom and grandmother , living alone so it’s gets lonely most of the time , about a month ago I came across an story about this same tv star , and have not been able to get him out of my mind he passed away a few years ago
I found myself talking to him
He’s in my head when I wake up till I go to sleep last thing at night
I feel very close to him I pray for him for his soul that he is at peace
I’m very confused as I’ve never met him he lived in US I live in UK why am I feeling his presence all around me
Good morning Matt,
I really needed too hear this this morning, I am carrying so much pain from abuse my whole life, I cannot find a healthy relationship. I forgive, give in and cave every time and feel like if I give in this time I will end up a statistic.
I know that sounds pretty harsh but it’s the reality. Thank you for this I appreciate it. Love to you, Alexa and Royce.
You are truly inspirational Matt. Thank you.
Thank you for the email. As always it is very helpful. I would love a reading but I am always broke. I paid one time and didn’t get a visit from my loved ones.
I soo need answers. My husband is not pleased I contacted a medium. I feel a bit guilty myself, but I just don’t believe God would give such a gift to one of his children & it to be interpreted as bad.I do not believe your bad or evil. It’s been a long road & Im nearly there. Please fill in the blanks as my heart aches Matt. I look forward to our zoom call. Like a lot. ⛅️ ️
Much love & admiration,
Nancy
I really need a reading. I used to go for readings in Chicago but now I’m in Minnesota and haven’t found anyone yet. There are so many things going on in my life I really need help to figure it all out. Thank you. Patty
I have an online session with you Oct 3 my birthday Oct 4 I have so many things to ask you but I’ll start with my mom. She didn’t raise me until later when a pre teen my grandma raised me when I did live with her she was very cruel to me hitting me all the time. I what to know why. And since I didn’t know my real father is the little information she did give me true?
I try to have memorial for my son and when I did nobody showed up
I have so much anger inside me for the way my son died,he was 29 years old and he was tooken by a drunk driver going 105mph and rear ended my son who was setting at a red light,killing him instantly, this was 2years 1 month and 13 days ago and this man has never showed any remorse what so ever.Not only am I angry for that but I’m angry at his father for the things that he has done to our son and me and then I’m angry at myself for loving his father so much that I allowed my son to go down a path of heartache betrayal and self destructive path ,how do I let that go
I lost my Mom 3 yrs ago. It took a “shock” to get me to even start dealing with it. I was maxed out frustrated, broken caring for my hubby 24/7. Had a pair of scissors in my right hand, pushed stay hair out of my eyes only to feel my ponytail. Scissors-ponytail….whack very short hair. I don’t have the best quality hair and it had taken me years to get a ponytail. My body shuddered inside and some of the grief fog lifted. Still a ways to go. Online reading on Sept 3rd. Hope for results
as an Italian you know how hard it is for them to give up anything! my dad for instances. He hasn’t passed yet but I worry about him. If he has to give up stuff before getting into heaven. You know Italians are the best at holding a grudge LOL
thank you
georgette roselli wynn
Oh Matt,
I know it was the year anniversary of my friends Mom,passed away.She sent me many signs to pass on to my friend.Even a white feather! It was her I feel that connected me to you on FB that day.you were giving a talk on what happens when we go to the other side.
I have a appointment on September 24.I’m hoping my mom will come thru.the date is my brothers birthday. She passed when I was 3,my brother was 5.she was 23. From a cerebral hemorrage.
Thank you for what you do!
Rhonda
My first husband died at 46 years old. I fell in love with my 2nd husband and was together about 18 years. He passed 12/23/22. I found out he had been married 4 other times. 2 I knew of. I am so hurt he never told me. I am so upset as he knew all about my life. I feel betrayed. Can I move on??
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Oh my word, Matt! What a lovely, inspirational Email! Besides myself, it appears it came at a needful time for many other sufferers. Thank you for all you do and continue to do! I come to your virtual readings once a month. Haven’t heard anything as yet but have shed tears for those who do as they needed the readings so much more at the time. I will keep returning.
Matt,
I find it of interest that all of your responses are from women!!!!!
Matt I’m in gratitude for your abilities to help people. Your messages seem to arrive when needed most on the very subjects be contemplated. I’ve been journal my for years I have many journals I was going to shred them but haven’t yet. It’s been helpful to me and I even write down dreams I get off and on that I remember. It’s scary to think of getting a reading. I do feel drawn to this and I saw you in a dream I had on like a motor bike grey and red you had on a grey and red jacket and you were smiling and wanted to talk to me and I awoke there were words on the motorcycle fleet but I don’t remember the rest. I’m scared to get into any relationship or even friendships. It’s weird but it was a real pretty leather jacket you had on. Never seen anything like it or the motorcycle. Don’t by the motorcycle. It’s just a weird dream don’t know why I dreamed that but I did it was real early morning when I awoke. Thank you Matt.
Matt Thank you for answering my question the other day . When I dreamed of you on the motorcycle bike I thought it came from you so that means it’s just random dreams I get off and on sometimes even with other famous people. I thought maybe my parents wanted me to talk to you I truly did dream of you on that bike the jacket the word fleet etc I dreamed it. I wasn’t lying I really get these dreams and conversation and flashes but now I know there just dreams and I have no abiilities I thought maybe I had a small intuition of dreams but I did want your truthful opinion thank you for helping me understand.
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