Why Souls Don’t Celebrate Their Birthdays in Heaven
Have you ever tried to figure out how old your loved one is in Heaven? You might think, “Hmm, let’s see, Grandma died when she was 89, and that was 20 years ago. Does that mean she’s 109 now?” Absolutely not. She’s not 109, and she’s not 89 either. In fact, your age is one of the things you don’t take with you when you pass over. Your body houses your soul during your time on earth, but when you die, your soul transitions and you leave your body behind. Souls in Heaven get to “travel light” without clothes, jewelry, or any earthly possessions. And they definitely don’t need any clocks or watches – because they’re in Heaven for eternity, time is irrelevant!
Leaving Time Behind
I’m excited to share insights about Heaven that I’ve learned over the course of many readings. We all want to know what the afterlife is really like, and it’s really interesting to understand time (or the absence of it) from a Soul’s perspective. Let’s start with when you’re alive. During your physical lifetime, every year matters. Each birthday marks another milestone passed on your life’s journey. You are on this planet to use this time to face challenges, learn lessons, create memories, share love, and fulfill your destiny.
As humans, we see our “lifetime” as all the time we have. But it’s different in Heaven.
Your age marks the amount of time you’ve been alive on Earth; when you pass over time just stops. The important connections you made on Earth stay with you in the afterlife, but Heaven is eternal, so there are no hours, days, weeks, or years.
That’s why your loved ones don’t celebrate their own birthdays, anniversaries, or any other milestone date after they pass over. However, they will be there in Spirit when you enjoy your own special days, and they especially enjoy watching you make progress on your life’s journey.
When someone dies, the people left behind may feel their absence even more on the birthday or anniversary of their death. Souls don’t want you to be sad on that particular day. In fact, they don’t want you to be sad at all, because they’re doing just fine, and they are always around you! But they do enjoy their memories of you, and want you to remember the happy times you shared with them.
Thanks for the Memories!
Here’s another crazy thing. As you go through your life, it’s impossible to remember everything. A few early memories may stand out, but for the most part, you don’t remember your first steps, your first birthday party (or your second or third), and many other events you experienced when you were young. As we get older, our brains can only hold so much. If you’re anything like me, you’re probably thinking,”Right, Matt, I can barely remember what I had for breakfast!” That’s okay, you don’t need to remember everything while you’re alive.
But those memories are not lost forever. Even if someone was suffering from Alzheimers, dementia, or were distracted and not paying attention when they were alive, when a soul transitions, all the things they experienced in their life, significant and insignificant, come rushing back.
That’s why, if you get a reading, you might notice that your loved one will share all kinds of memories of you. They’ll jump from something that happened when you were very young, to your wedding. They will even have memories that happened to you after they died.
That’s right. Time isn’t important in Heaven, but memories are treasured.
When it Comes to Memories, The Line Between Heaven and Earth is Blurred.
I just did an online reading for a woman whose mother died when she (the daughter) was just six years old. The woman wasn’t sure if she could get a good reading, because her mom had passed so early in her life – but as the reading went on, she was shocked to learn that her mom had memories from when they were together, and also up to the present day! In the reading, it was clear that her mom was still watching over her daughter, and the grandchildren she had never met in life, and had the loving memories to prove it.
Here’s another interesting fact about the memories Souls retain in Heaven. When they go through their life review they recall EVERYTHING with total clarity and understanding! Every step they took, every person they interacted with. They not only see the people they met, but also fully understand why their path crossed with them.
Your loved ones watch over you with pure love. They want to see you make the connections and have the experiences you need to grow. Sometimes they will send you a sign to let you know they’re around, or give you a nudge to keep you on course. They want to see you make the most out of your life, and to be happy.
Next time you attend a live mediumship event, in-person or online, and are selected for a reading, know that you will be connecting with the soul, the essence, of your loved one. No matter how old they were or what state they were in when they passed, you can be confident that from their place in Heaven, they will have perfect, loving recall of their time with you.
Responses
I would love a reading I lost my husband 3 years ago and it’s hard but I just don’t have the money to get a reading it’s like I’m on disability and have some health problems but I still love him and miss him everyday he’s been gone I read your book a lot and what’s two other ratings you’re a great person I love you so much thank God for you
Me too ! March 2, 2020. We had lived together for 45 years. Today would have been his 85th birthday. I still love him, but I don’t miss him. I know he’s in the place that Matt describes, even though he didn’t believe in it. From now on I’m enjoying every minute of my new chapter of life and my loved ones can have something fun to observe.
So it would have been great to have a reading from you . But… as you said you do not do personal reading’s anymore! My dumb luck!! There are things i wish my husband could of said to me before is died! But… he took them with him.
Hi Matt. I would love to see you in Person but unfortunately you are only at the northern states. I live in Florida.
Hi Matt!
I lost my dad in August very unexpectedly… he was found laying on the ground in his yard … there wasn’t a chance to say good bye and I can’t let that go … I miss him .. I would love a reading some day …
Thank you
Hi Matt, please come to Johannesburg South Africa sometime in the distant future, I know I’m asking the impossible but I hope that one day it can happen. Would love to contact my son and mother. I’m a huge fan
Matt what you do is amazing and help so many people. Thank You
My grandparents and father died when I was young and my mum… my best friend passed away 2019. I miss her so much I struggle can you please send my love and sny msg to me I wish I had your abilities you are very blessed x
How’s my husband in heaven. I miss him. We parted with hard feelings and I’m want him and God to forgive me. So truly sorry
Hi Matt!!
Im Gail Althouse…i live in Imlay, Nevada..your probably thinking where the hell is that…lol..its about 150 miles east of Reno Nv…I ABSOLUTELY love listening to you…my Dad passed away 5 years ago…i REGRET so much now..that i didnt listen to him..take his advice..aprreciate him more..i know hes still in my house..he kicks the garbage can alot..rattles pots pans..opens doors..just little things..i visit his grave sometimes 3 to 4 times a week…talk to him..makes me feel better…why is it so hard to let go?? I feel he left a big hole in my heart..i cry ALOT because i miss him so much..will this ease up eventually..i just want to talk to him…is that possible???..Thank you Matt!!
My brother passed away this past Christmas I hope to see you one day to get a reading
Hi from San Diego born in RI
Hi Matt!!!! ,I’m from New Mexico all your bookings are quite far away when are you headed down this end of my way? ❤️
Hi I’m from Regina,Sk born in Swift Current,Sk my hometown in Cabri,Sk. I am partially deaf would love to meet or talk with you.I prefer interpreter or close caption on screen.I liked to know if my gramma n grandpa are ok …I missed them so much!!I wanted to hear my gramma soooo much.I needed to know is my beloved dogs there too?
Dixie Thorburn ❤️
Heya Matt, just on the off chance you’ve not been told yet today …
YOU ARE PURE AWESOME !
Please continue being happy & keep that vessel of yours healthy cause there’s way tooooo many, hurting humans here on Earth, in need of a little Matt Frasier healing xx
Hi Matt!!!! ,I’m from New Mexico all your bookings are quite far away when are you headed down this end of my way? ❤️
Matt I’ve always believed in eternity and especially God. You have answered so many questions that not only I had but many people I’m sure. Thank you for that I’ve lost so many from my immediate Family and can’t wait to reunite with them one day. God Bless you for all you do for people. Love to you and your Family especially little Royce a roni.
I would like an online reading or connection if possible, I know you’re busy and don’t expect a reply. Thank you
My name is Rachel Husar and I want to talk to my late husband and stepfather in heaven. I know that they are both at peace and I feel their presence. I feel an empty void in my heart when they are not with me in the earthly realm. I would like to have a consultation with you but due to the lack of money, it’s virtually impossible for me to get a reading with you. I’m on a fixed income, I am currently residing in a rehab facility due to my disability. I will find a way to get a reading with you because I need peace and clarity in my life. Thank you so much Matt. God bless you. I love watching your YouTube channel.
From Utah I tried sending a comment it won’t let me says Web Page not available thanks for all you do helping many to understand reasons for a loved ones passing miss are son 3 yrs this July.
I would love a reading, but would love it more if you did one for my dear friend who lost two of her children. It would be so wonderful for her to connect with them….
My boyfriend has just passed 2 months ago…we were so connected to each other and we love so much each other …he pays me visitations in my dreams and also showed me certain signs that assures me that he is looking over me…but still I miss him alot …and i really wonna communicate once to him and talk to him…there are certain things i want to ask him but i just can’t focus on my energy that causes me trouble to communicate with him…i just don’t know what to do…initially i got dreams etc. But now I don’t get them…i dont know what to do…
Thank you Matt, very insightful and interesting reading. See you tonight in New Bedford.
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