What Really Happens During a Mediumship Reading? A Peek Behind the Veil

Have you ever wondered what actually happens when you sit down with a psychic medium? Maybe you’ve seen mediumship readings on TV like Long Island Medium or watched videos online, but there’s still that lingering question: Is it real? What does it feel like? Will my loved one actually come through?

I get it. As America’s Top Psychic Medium, I’ve sat with thousands of people, from everyday folks searching for closure to celebrity psychic mediums’ clients and skeptics who walked in with their arms crossed. And you know what? Almost everyone leaves with the same look on their face: a mix of tears, relief, and sometimes even laughter.

Today, I want to pull back the curtain and show you exactly what happens during a mediumship reading. Whether you’re considering booking your first session or you’re just curious about how this whole thing works, I promise you’ll walk away with a much clearer picture, and hopefully, a little more peace in your heart.

First Things First: What Is a Mediumship Reading?

Let’s start with the basics. A mediumship reading is a session where I act as a bridge between you (the living) and your loved ones who have passed on. Think of me as a translator. Spirit doesn’t exactly send text messages, so my job is to receive their communication and deliver it to you in a way that makes sense.

Now, here’s something important: I’m not a “death medium” in some spooky, Hollywood sense. What I do is about healing, not fear. The souls who come through aren’t haunting anyone, they’re reaching out with love, validation, and sometimes a little humor. (Yes, your grandpa can still crack jokes from the other side!)

What Happens Before the Reading Begins?

Before I connect with anyone in Spirit, I like to take a moment to prepare my energy. This might sound a little “woo-woo,” but it’s actually pretty simple. I set an intention that the reading will serve your highest good, that the right messages come through at the right time.

When you sit down with me (whether in person or during an online reading), I don’t need you to tell me your whole life story. In fact, I prefer you don’t! The less I know going in, the more meaningful the evidence becomes when Spirit starts sharing details that only you would recognize.

You might be nervous. That’s completely normal. Most people are! But here’s the thing, your loved ones on the other side are just as eager to connect with you. They’ve been waiting for this moment too.

How Do Messages Actually Come Through?

This is the part that fascinates people the most, so let me break it down.

Spirit doesn’t communicate in full sentences like you and I do over coffee. Instead, they send me images, feelings, sounds, and symbols. It’s like receiving a rapid-fire slideshow mixed with emotions and sometimes even physical sensations.

Here’s how my psychic senses work:

1. Clairvoyance (Clear Seeing)
I might see a mental image of your grandmother’s kitchen, a specific piece of jewelry she wore, or even the way she styled her hair. These visuals help me identify who is coming through.

2. Clairsentience (Clear Feeling)
Sometimes I physically feel things. If your dad passed from a heart condition, I might feel a heaviness in my chest. If your mom was a hugger, I’ll feel that warmth and affection wash over me.

3. Clairaudience (Clear Hearing)
This is when I hear names, phrases, or even songs. Recently, a client’s grandfather kept playing “My Way” by Frank Sinatra in my head, and sure enough, that was his song.

4. Claircognizance (Clear Knowing)
Sometimes I just know things without understanding how. Information drops into my mind fully formed, like someone downloaded a file directly into my brain.

What Kind of Information Comes Through?

Here’s where it gets really special. The messages that come through during mediumship readings aren’t vague or generic. They’re specific to you and your loved one.

I might describe:

• Physical characteristics (height, hair color, the way they walked)
• Personality traits (was she stubborn? did he have a dry sense of humor?)
• Shared memories (that trip to the lake, the Sunday dinners, the nickname only they used)
• Current awareness (yes, they saw you at their grave last week, and they were right there with you)

One of the most common questions I get is: “Can the dead see you when you visit their grave?” The answer is absolutely yes. Your loved ones are aware of everything you do to honor them. They see the flowers you leave, they hear the words you whisper, and they feel the love you carry.

Why Do People Seek Out Mediumship Readings?

People come to me for all sorts of reasons. Some are looking for closure after a sudden loss. Others want confirmation that their loved one is at peace. And some simply miss hearing from someone they loved deeply.

I once sat with a woman who had lost her teenage son in an accident. She hadn’t slept well in two years. During our reading, her son came through with incredibly specific details: the poster on his bedroom wall, the last text he sent her, even a joke about her cooking. By the end of the session, she was crying, but they were tears of relief. She finally knew he was okay.

That’s the healing power of this work. It’s not about predicting the future or performing some kind of magic trick. It’s about reconnection. It’s about knowing that love doesn’t end when someone passes: it just changes form.

What If You’re a Skeptic?

Good! Healthy skepticism is actually a great thing. I don’t ask anyone to believe blindly. What I ask is that you stay open: just a little: and let the evidence speak for itself.

The best mediums in the US (and I’m honored to be considered among them) don’t ask you to fill in the blanks. We provide the details, and you validate them. If something doesn’t make sense in the moment, that’s okay too. Sometimes messages click later, after the reading, when you remember a detail or talk to another family member.

The most important thing is that you feel comfortable. A mediumship reading should never feel scary or unsettling. It should feel like coming home.

What Happens After the Reading?

Once our session ends, I always encourage people to sit with what they’ve received. Journal about it. Share it with family members who might recognize additional details. And most importantly: talk to your loved ones! You don’t need a psychic medium to maintain that connection. They hear you every single time you speak to them, whether out loud or in your heart.

Many clients tell me they start noticing more signs after their reading. Maybe it’s a cardinal appearing on their windowsill, a song playing at just the right moment, or the sudden smell of their grandmother’s perfume. Once that door is opened, Spirit keeps reaching out.

Ready to Experience It for Yourself?

If you’ve been curious about mediumship readings, or if you’re longing to hear from someone you’ve lost, I want you to know that healing is possible. The other side is closer than you think, and your loved ones are waiting to remind you that they’re still with you: every single day.

I’d love to connect with you at one of my online group readings, where you can experience the magic of mediumship from the comfort of your own home. It’s a beautiful way to witness how Spirit works and maybe even receive a message of your own. You can also check out my newest books if you want to strengthen your own ability to sense and connect with loved ones on the other side.

With peace from the other side,

Matt Fraser
America’s Top Psychic Medium