How can you help a friend who is grieving?
It’s obvious they’re in pain, and even when you wrack your brain for a way to make it better, it’s tough to come up with the right thing to say. Most people resort to something like, “They had a wonderful life,” “At least they didn’t suffer,” or “They’ll live on in our hearts.” You might feel as if there’s nothing that will bring that person back, and no matter how well meaning, your words of comfort are just words.
But what if you could assure the person that their loved one is not really gone – that instead of being dead, they have simply transitioned to another phase of their existence?
The best thing about being a medium…
I’ve been connecting people with souls on the other side for years. Seeing the weight of grief being lifted when I deliver a message from Heaven is one of my favorite things about being a medium.
Group readings, in person or online, are especially rewarding for me because everyone in the room leaves feeling better. Even if they don’t get a message themselves, the realization that their loved ones are watching over them from Heaven eases some of the pain.
I have good news. You don’t have to be a psychic medium to help someone who is grieving – even if that person is you.
Here are a few things anyone can do to feel closer to the one they’re missing.
- Embrace the fact that the dearly departed is now safe, happy and pain-free. Imagine them reunited with family members, friends and pets on the other side. If there are children who are also grieving, encourage them to draw pictures of the person in their new Heavenly home.
- Be aware that souls communicate through signs and signals. Signs are like text messages or postcards from Heaven to remind you they’re with you. A sign can be anything – you’ll recognize it by the fact that it triggers a memory, or makes you think of the person.
- Know that your loved one’s greatest wish is for you to be as happy as they are. The last thing they want is to see you lonely or in pain. In fact, souls often tell me that they are responsible for helping their loved one on earth meet someone new.
- Learn some simple tools and techniques to bring loved ones closer — by doing this, you can actually invite more signs and signals. Try setting up a memory corner with photos, a candle and maybe something that belonged to the departed. They’ll appreciate being remembered in this loving way, and you’ll feel their presence every time you walk by.
- Attend a mediumship demonstration like an online group reading and witness first-hand how the dead reach out to the living. Listen to the messages that come through to others in the room closely – everyone can benefit from the wisdom and guidance that comes through.
- Be mindful and aware. So many times, when I do a reading, the soul lets me know they have been trying and trying to get their loved one’s attention. They’ve sent coins, flickered lights, and played meaningful songs on the radio – but the person they were trying to reach was too busy to notice. I get that we all are busy with normal day to day activities, but try slowing down and paying attention. That change in behavior might just be all you need to feel more connected!
As someone who has seen the healing and closure a message or sign from Heaven can provide, I wanted to reach out and share that comfort and closure with as many people as possible. So, I’ve taken the very best of what I’ve learned and created a unique new masterclass called ‘Keeping in Touch’. It includes practical and useful tips on how you can keep your loved ones close and connected to you even after death.
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If you’re struggling with a loss, or know someone who is, this course will open your eyes, and change your life!
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hello ♡ i would like to thank you again.. for sharing your beautiful love & light~ for sharing these beautiful reminders.. i am so grateful to and for you.. as i believe many are. first, today, i discovered, listened to, and watched a video you had posted 6 months ago on youtube. and i truly believe that, that was the very moment that i was meant to experience and feel your love & light. and now here i am, i just read your beautiful post. thank you… i truly am grateful.. and we are all so very proud of you.. and happy for you.. that you are sharing and fulfilling your life’s purpose.. ♡♡
love & light to you and to everyone always..
♡ you’re beautiful 🙂
take care..
all is full of love~
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devine timing
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The only thing you can say is sorry, to me who lost a 24 yr old no other comment makes sense. It’s so suffocating some times I can’t breathe. It’s been a Year and half and I just want to know that he is ok and in a better place, mostly importantly that I will see him again.
Signs after a loved one has passed is the most comforting feeling. I have experienced this 4 times.
My life ended 5 yrs ago when my sons did.
I’m a corpse with a heartbeat , I walked out of the family home, 4 daughters , a dog, a cat,family and friends, got on a plane and flew across the country and have not had human contact since.
The everything has died in me , but my heart keeps beating.
Thank you for sharing. I really needed this reminder today. I signed up for a group reading in April an I am so looking forward to it.
Meeeee toooooo
April 2nd…. you???
Dear Matt
My Mum died this morning, I live in a different country to her and I am unable to fly due to restrictions. Her sister my Aunt died 5 months ago. I feel so sad by their passing, I am hoping to receive signs. I will be trying to get the funds together to do your workshop. God Bless.
My Aunt Passed away last night and she was like a mother to me. My heart is broken as I prayed for God and our loved ones to take her quickly and not make her suffer. Seconds later my Mom called to tell me that she had passed. I thanked God for answering my prayer
Mmy beautiful mummy died 7th of February.. i can’t cope without her.
I am so grateful that I was introduced to you by a friend! I immediately watched a number of your videos and was so touched by your wisdom, your incredible ability to communicate with our loved ones who transitioned and your amazing wit! You helped to make me into a ” believer” again!!! After watching you it was like I had an epiphany and my myriad of negative thoughts changed to the positive!!! I am beginning to heal for the first time in nine months! I immediately joined your “Keeping in Touch” online course! I look forward to learning about all the valuable and much needed information you have to share with me!!! I consider myself blessed!!! Thank you Matt! You are a guiding light in the darkness!!!
Dear Matt,
Thank u for enlightening me & my son. U have answered so many questions for us. My husband did not wake up one morning. We were devastated.
No goodbyes. So many questions what happened. We miss him so much! We just had to know if he is safe & happy& in heaven,
Thank u Matt
Thanks a lot for share your gift to humanity,i wish i can do have same ability,and hope to develop mine.I really need to hear from my parents who passed a while ago.would really appreciate your help right about now.
My Son, 35 died. Suicide. Why ? I love him. I didnt know that my Son was Hurt from the inside and everything hurts me too I love you I miss you
I have a photo screen that you email pictures to ☀️It is on the table next to my husbands chair he passed feb. 9 2020 on my mother’s birthday well 5 times now the photo machine has turned itself on I know my husband Bill is making it come on ❤️It’s a comfort ❤️Thank you Matt for your positive lessons ❤️
Thank you for this. My nephew committed suicide.. He is missed so much… God Bless
The night my beautiful mother died, she called out so loudly in the hallway, I woke up and for a long moment I wondered if she was still alive .. i had cared for her at home and she chose to depart, because the pain level decided.
We were best friends but i couldnt be present in her final 5 minutes. Your guidance has given me peace and connection ❤ ♀️
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